Int'l Woman of Travel

Nature Pictures

2011-07-27T06:58:00.000-07:00

Taken while driving along highway 58 east of Santa Margarita. I was looking for wildflowers but saw horse ranches instead.

Then there are the beached Elephant seals along the shores of San Simeon

A skinny baby on shore

A male seal backing off when we were spotted

Montana de Oro - my place of worship; this image down at the water's edge climbed down the cliff to get here.

Crashing up on the breaker; the sounds and the sights of the water is what I am there for.

Recovering Access to this Blog and my Life!

2011-07-27T06:32:00.000-07:00

I am so frustrated that I cannot access this blog on a regular basis. I even sent out a couple of security check messages but miraculously I am in sending this update!

A lot has happened since January. I have moved out of San Luis Obispo, quit my current job to start another soon and moved to Grover Beach, CA. So my physical location is in one beach and my mailing address now in another beach - Pismo. Always in a state of flux. Also lost access to my primary yahoo email account so I am lucky I am here blogging right now.

In a couple weeks I will be with my cats and bringing them back from Florida. That was a very long 2 1/2 years without them. Volunteering at the local Humane Society has brought me back to being around cats, I hope my allergies will not flare up with them on no corn gluten meal diet.

Volunteering at the local playhouse has been an experience working in the theater. Also gives me the opportunity to see who is in the community and free snacks the time I volunteer :)

Now I am going to see if this posts and soon posting pics again....see you all if I get back into here again.

Sprinkling of Cows on the Velvety Green Hills

2011-01-16T03:14:00.000-08:00

Driving down through the Central Coast counties back to Ventura sure puts me in a happy place. With all the rains we have had since the 2011 new year, the hills are populated with happy cows of all colors roaming up and down the slopes. A reflection of life makes me think of a bucket list; I have done and seen lots of places that I wanted to but will need to keep that list for details before time runs out.

1. Hang gliding or motor sailing (?) along the beach
2. Drive a fancy European car and speed on the Audobon
3. Go back to Australia for a visit at least one more time
4. One more trip back to Korea
5. Tour into Grand Canyon
6. New Year's Eve in Time Square

Today I realized that I can survive very well by myself in USA - familiar settings, culture, etc. But when it comes to survival and independence living in a foreign and desireable country, I cannot survive on my own. Others that do enjoy the foreign lifestyle experience have a partner and thus support each other in the process. My journey was a loner attempt. Such a paradox but it proves to me how countries treat "foreigners". They will take care of their own before anyone else - you have to be a special case to make it big in a 'foreign' country. The Beatles, Australian actors, Madonna, Gwynneth Paltrow; I think you got the picture. Little old me - trying to make it in a small software provider organization, and a minority at that - WTF? And I am not as young as I used to be for all the stress that goes into changes.

Well, things do happen for a reason - I gained the opportunity to live in the paradise where there is sprinkling of cows in the velvetry green hills. Being in this small cowboy town I seem to meet different people easier. I hang out at Louisa's place for breakfast and Firestone Grill for Monday Night Football. These places are where the college kids hang out. Thus my symbol of youth and exposure to college life. Louisa's is always busy so I eat at the counter. Last weekend I sat next to a Psychology Professor who has gone back to limited technology in his life, then a wild swinger party owner; in the same seat! What a contrast. It's facinating how much I would have missed if I tried to stay as 'foreigner' in a country that didn't really want me anyway. Guess I have to take care of and support myself in friendly territories. Thank you happy cows!

Note: I know anonynous readers are seeing this - identify yourself or else find your own happy cows!

Showing off my Talent :)

2010-10-27T21:48:00.000-07:00

Estonian Lace pattern; a wedding gift to a woman I work with.

I am impressed with myself for the detail on how it turned out!

Hello World - Back to Reality, Again

2010-10-27T21:29:00.000-07:00

I am back here on this blog site to remind myself that there is reality checks that I have to write about.

Since my last postings, I have moved to San Luis Obispo, CA; hired into a great job as a consultant utilizing all of my past hospital, IT and consulting skills; just bought another new car to join the sisterhood of Scooter (my Miata) and I have to admit much happier now that it has been nearly a year since I moved back from Australia. I am still haunted from living there with a credit card annual fee to pay but I am in a much better mind set instead of a deep dark depression last year. I have to thank a few people - without them I wouldn't be in this wonderland of California without their support shelter-wise. Oh yes, I also turned a milestone age. The photo should mark the disposition I am in at this time.

Of course - knitting continues to keep me centered. I have just finished a beautiful Estonian Lace shawl for a woman at work who is getting married. Had to take the images before I gifted it. Some day I will get back to knitting one for myself; I do have enough yarn choices. Those bins/barrel of yarn traveled with me overseas twice in the last year. Have to admit, they are the best inanimate companion :)

Violation of my Privacy...this one's for you!

2010-03-18T00:06:00.000-07:00

Take a look at this photo as this will be the last time this image will be possible. This is a photo with my "buddy" Ken for the last time together. The drama has come to an end and I haven't even understood why it is such a fucking drama to begin with. What facinates me is how people that do not realize how they are untrue to themselves are also not true to others around them. All I am concerned with is that I am not responsible or accoutable for how others feel when it comes to paranoia and rage on their part(s). I feel absolutely awesome for the fact that I know I am in control of how I relate to people. Others with social/mental retardation in relating with people for others - well I am not here to train people especially when I know I gain nothing; call me a bitch. Puzzled on what the hell I am talking about? Here is the rundown:

-Ken and I have known each other for > 15 years as we have worked in the same company. Photo above is from our reunion of this company this past weekend. I have the sense of marital issues on his end the whole time I have known him.

-His wife (noted in last photo of previous post) doesn't seem happy with the fact that we have a 'friendship' together. Which means we have same interests and an adventurous interest of activities. Boohoo - can I help it that I can't include others that don't have the same energy as me?

-I even have listened and supported wife's perspective from hearing Ken's feedback on their marriage.

-Ken seems to have a different perspective e.g. that wife and I should be comfortable together. My thoughts are not the same as I sense the paranoia on her part. I respect the situation and encourage myself to be away from this 'friendship' but Ken has thought otherwise. Men, those dears!!My thoughts are that he is just another gay friend so what is the big deal?

-Because of my respect of walking away from this negative energy, wife seems to take upon herself to read this private blog. Private means that I only send this link to ones that I know (close friends) because I want them to read my thoughts. I did remove this blog link from Facebook last month as I know I wanted to keep this private. She has not answered Ken's question on where she got this link. Suspect invasion of his email privacy as well (?) Not my problem.

-My respect and honoring wife request of "I want her {me} to go away" yields her snooping and violation of my blog commentaries, did I mention this is private information? This is the thanks I get for being respectful to her request. Badgering Ken on what I meant by some comments helped me realize she is reading this blog.

Being true to oneself means you know your limitations in life in all aspects, even when it comes to people. I realized that my future employment will be measured on my tolerance of people interaction; thus the reason why I went into computer implementation work. A decision that I have to respect for myself as I have spent thousands of dollars in Nursing Aesthetic training thinking I was going to go into that field. My decision to not go into that is due to staying away from a work burnout and bullshitting with people for aesthetic shit. I am not a good liar.

I am finding out that the support of this wife's dark activity goes to the her, should I be surprised - NO! That's another subject of enablement....Sure this information is on the internet but there is the freedom of writing/speech that I am exercising here.

So, wife - this one's dedicated for you 'cos I know you are reading this! Notice how I have concealed your name for shear respect? BAZINGA!

Ken's 50th Birthday

2010-03-13T01:26:00.000-08:00

Just got back from Ken's 50th birthday celebration on a yacht in Marina Del Rey. Appeteasers and lower than mediocre tasting birthday cake. At least it looked pretty.

Camille wasn't up to joining me since she is having yet another dramatic week at work. Being on a boat cycling through the marina was not what she was up for this evening. I met a couple of Ken's friends: Paul and Gail. Married couple who love and thrive on adventure. I turned them on to getting a Galapagos Island trip for themselves - they would love the nature and wildlife as I do. Paul is trying to get hooked up on hang gliding activity. I absolutely want to do that Ken wants to do that as well. This is one of my bucket list items.

My buddy Ken with the flowers I got him for this birthday (still sober).

Apparently, I don't seem to be a very welcome guest at the Ken's party in terms of Ken's wife and her friends are concerned. However I was invited to this "surprise" event. I tried to take a photo of Ken and myself and I believe this woman who pretended to be drunk was falling back on the 2 of us while the photo was being taken by his wife. Don't know why I gave the camera to her for the photo but I suspect the weird action from her friend was planned! Here is the best mug shot of Ken and I from the evening - it's as good as it gets! Here is Ken completely wasted and having a good time. The photo has cropped off the woman who seemed to want to be in every attempted shot! Don't you love the drama?

Who's your mama Ken?

Sturdy but Fragile

2010-03-04T15:58:00.000-08:00

Here I am in the year of 2010 still without a means of an income; rejection seems to continue here. Had an interview in Florida for a manager position. It is replacing someone who was a manager first time as well. They decided to fly someone in from Australia...and picked someone else who has management experience. I think Australia has really tarnished me and I loved it there - how so fucking ironic! Am not really happy these days as I forgot to take my peri-menopausal pills for the past 3 days. Wondering why I am very emotional....again! I would love to think and experience that knitting all day, every day would give me an income. I am making Mark a sweater out of wool/angora fiber - he better like it! I also made a Manos wool for Laurie Bilbruck's mother, the woman's whose condo I am staying in - thank you Laurie!!

Otherwise, I am continuing to have this perspective of being led on then deflated; in all aspects of my life:

-Job interviews/head hunter calls that I though would be a job
-Friends who are supposed to be friends but desire to be more but can't deliver
-The economic sitation is "getting better"...where is work then?

I am fortunate for the situation that I am temporarily in to help me financially however one of the items is going away shortly which means I must find a used vehicle to purchase and get insurance along with other living maintenance.

Have to keep looking at the "bright side of life". Went to Vegas Valentine's weekend to get the 21 out of my system. We saw a Chihuly glass gallery and I loved those pieces! Here is my favourite estimated $55K USD.

I love the brilliant colors in his pieces! I have to identify with these pieces as showing my brilliance yet fragility if I am bumped off my mark.

Until next time....

And now for my Next Magic Trick

2010-01-25T21:00:00.000-08:00

The Phoenix in me has yet to rise. I am still favouring my raw scars of 2009. Have to admit this past year has been the best and the worst times of my whole life so far. A love/hate rollercoaster:
• Love Melbourne- hate the company that got me out there to work
• Love the fact that I can be flexible by giving/selling all of my collectibles and housewares to move from one hemisphere to another-hate that I had to do it twice in the same year
• Love my best friends that I established in Melbourne-hate that I had to leave and not be with them as often as I was when I lived in there
• Love the fact that I am enjoying my unemployment phase now-hate the manner of how I got this way
Since I just recently took the laser/botox/dermal filler certification course at National Laser Institue I still see myself going to the familiar environment of technology project work. I feel as though I am starting all over again not with my living situation but also with my career and life!

I am grateful that there are a couple potential employments that seem to be promising to me at this time therefore enjoying my “me” time as much as possible. The lesson learned here: Always consider keeping my environmental happiness instead of making any hasty work decisions because it's glamorous.

One of my Nursing Continuing Education for Nurses booklet in the mail has a course for ‘Burnout: Impact on Nursing’. Reading through it, it applies to ANY job or career and not just in Nursing. Scanning through it, I had the classic burnout risks, manifestations, symptoms and stages while working in Melbourne. Good thing I have this information so in my job interviews, I can inquire on whether I will burnout again. Term of burnout: “The term is used to describe a mild degree of unhappiness caused by stress, as well as any degree of distress, from fatigue or major depression…..it is not a problem related to an individual but a problem of the social environment in which people work and is a function of how people within that environment interact with one another and perform their jobs.” Let me say that the fucking bitch that started the rampage of not supporting me at work Down Under definitely was the lynch-pin from my experience. Am relieved that it is something I cannot take personally but at the time, I felt like a failure; truly like going through a divorce for the length of time I worked at that company.

I am very grateful for friends that have helped me through this mess and recovery. I actually did help out a couple of friends for a living situation in the past so I guess I am getting my return of that good deed :). So…for my next magic trick, I will make sure that I avoid the risks, correct any manifestations/symptoms to avoid the stages of burnout….in my 4th career!

What is "home"?

2009-11-25T20:21:00.001-08:00

Now that I am back to the land of > 12% unemployment and people speak Spanish instead of Vietnamese, the question to be is: what is 'home' for me?

Uprooting myself twice in one year, living through a divorce from a company of 8 years service and being unemployed and 'homeless' is quite a journey for one year's time. 2009 was incredible for changes; "new responsponsibility for our era" as Obama claims in his inaugaural speech. Lessons learned: will never be hasty to make decisions in business even though it sounds "cool" career-wise or a cool location. I already miss Melbourne!!

BTW, here is a photo of my goal being in Australia. Had to hold a koala and finally did it! They are the sweetest things until they scratch you with their marsupial claws. (Cohunu Koala Park, Perth)

Can't forget the other cuddly animal in Australia - this one was expecting a snack from me (Caversham Wildlife Park, Perth).

The place that has won my eye on the most beautiful is Tasmania. Colourful botanical gardens, historical location of the penal system for convicts from UK, and cool coastal formations.
(Japanese gardens)

(remains of the hospital in Port Arthur for convicts)

coastal formation between Tasman arch and Devil's Kitchen - other side of Pirates cove Penance, Tasmania)

Here is a photo of my best buddies in Melbourne - miss them dearly! John, Steve and Darrin.

On to a new chapter in life....

Holiday Time for Reflection

2009-10-08T07:19:00.000-07:00

For those who are reading this blog.....I have completed my divorce from my employer with most items that I have requested. It's a matter of seeing the details fall into place as signed for, etc. for the remaining 6 weeks here.

Now my effort still entails obtaining my retirement fund from this country to roll over to my IRA and waiting for all finacial transactions complete with my bank account e.g. residual penalties for breaking my rental lease. I will be without a computer for some time until I get back to the States and find the time/funds to purchase one and get internet connectivity.

Melbourne is a wonderful city, there is no recession here. Australia is the first country to raise interest rates since they are doing very well here. Will be interesting going back to the States when I have lived in a higher cost of living where the economy is growing. In the meantime, I will try to enjoy Australia while I am still here.

Oh by the way....there are koalas in the wild just not in the city. This weekend I am excited to see the Philip Island penguins :)

See you when I get back to the States!

Back to Reality

2009-10-01T08:07:00.001-07:00

For those who are paying attention: I have celebrated my infamous 9-11 here in Melbourne. Been given the termination paperwork at my job of 8 years today after being sent home and stay away from the office on 9-11. Misconception and disception: thought things were the same as the projects I worked in America - wrong! Note to all: when one is terminated, the employer does not care about you and that you have traveled half-way around the world to join their team! Some happy birthday I have been having - had to post the hot Italian while this crap was all going down.

Options of going back to Nursing; active licenses in US or reciprocity here in Australia. Otherwise I have applied for 2 jobs here in Melbourne and 2 jobs at Community Memorial Hosptital in Ventura.

Life is definately a journey with humbled events. Now have experienced a layoff and now termination - what fun at this age. This experience is like going through a divorce! Meanwhile lives are lost in Samoa - WTF!!

Birthday with a Hot Italian

2009-09-21T17:25:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone .... it has been a very long time since I posted here. I have been truly preoccupied with work drama but now am able to come out of the depths to post something :)

Sunday was my birthday here in Melbourne. I invited my close network of friends to a wonderful Italian restaurant (well, the waiter is a hot Italian) called Terra Rosa. This is my second time there and for the eye candy...check it out! Meet Andreas. He is from Milan and has a beautiful thick Italian accent.

I came out of the rest room and he accidentally ran into me - wow! I have to have that happen to me more often. The "boys" that were with me at this dinner were jealous that it didn't happen to them :) I enjoyed the lovely kisses that Andreas gave me. Mamma Mia!

In the end we all had a great time. Ronda got a phone number from another young Aussie blond waiter so that truly made her night. Success for us cougars!! Even Darren snuck in a kiss from Andreas as we left the restaurant.

Clockwise: Darren, Ronda, John, Steve, Erica and Stephen

Clare the Bogan

2009-06-05T18:51:00.000-07:00

Clare Werbeloff and the phrase "Chk Chk Boom" have become famous since this interview a couple weekends ago. The shooting really did happen in Sydney; her interview was all made up. She and this interview, along with other youtube mixes, are all over the internet; "Chk Chk Boom" on T-shirts, coffee mugs and other paraphenelia since this interview. She was interviewed in Aussie's "A Current Affair" and said she did not mean to be racist ("Wog") and that Aussie poke fun at the media all the time so she made up that story in the interview.

Great for the papperatzis (sp?); maybe the celebrities should follow her methods if they are angry with the media frenzy: make it all up.

Arrival of Wordly Possessions

2009-05-30T00:03:00.001-07:00

Mid January was when my belongings were picked up in Ventura; just received them this past Monday here in Melbourne! So much for overseas shipping. Good thing I didn't pack actual furniture.

Now I can stop buying more yarn here in Albert Park - my stash has arrived! All bins: cashmere, wool and wool blends, silks, cottons, sock yarns galore! My other things e.g. jewelry, CD's, videos and DVD's are all in as well. Haven't checked out the quality of this medium yet since I dont have a DVD and CD player. Photo albums - when I was still taking 35mm....one album has my collection of photos for when I was first here in Melbourne, Sydney, the Outback and New Zealand. I was facinated in the old Victorian buildings here in Melbourne back then. What also is creepy that my hairstyle was the same back then - bobbed with bangs. Just my body is wider. Wow! Anyway, the stuff is now tucked away in my second bedroom. A comforter was immediately taken out for my bed since I am freezing at night: winter now. Took out Flo's quilt that she made me and I have that for my couch and comfy chair in the living room.

Was a bit apprehensive to receive this stuff in a way since I have gotten used to living without all those items. But I am glad the memories are here with me especially my 2 flutes. Thinking of joining a community concert group in Melbourne; if this job ever lets me out enough. The balance of isolation and want to be isolated is a challenge with this job. Also tough when I can't contact people in the US as much as I would hope. There is always a 2-way street of communcations! :)

Ta for now.

The Best Video Clip

2009-05-08T06:35:00.000-07:00

Stand by Me

Something that I can relate to no matter where I am in this world.

Perimenopause and Winter in June Ahead!

2009-05-08T05:02:00.000-07:00

Ok..almost a month since I posted something here. Still struggling on getting all my safari photos in facebook. Ravelry....well, where can one find the damn time to get on the internet with the work that I am doing all f#$%*g day on the computer? I have started other knitting projects and the novelty of taking photos and spending time to upload and update Ravelry, facebook, personal email and this blog...drudgery.

Saw in the news that a guy won the 'best job in the world'; blogging while living on Hamilton Island here in Queensland. I would not qualify if I had diarrhea every day in Africa. As you can see my mood about computer time will not work for me. Can you see how perimenopause is now affecting me? Now winter is coming into my world again!!! I just got out of it. AAAAHHH!

Btw, here is a great photo...this poor guy was trying to make the moves on a special lady but we spoiled it for him shortly afterwards - got a photos before complete shrinkage.

Here is what I am looking for these days but haven't found the opportunity to seek this potential:

Mood swings and abdominal cramps galore.....definately hormone changes happening. Meanwhile work is heating up. I frankly am experiencing my dream of living here in Oz but what timing in my life. I met a very nice lesbian (sexual preference is very open down here) who localized from Canada earlier this week. She made me miss my kitties since she transported 3 cats into quarrantine when she moved here. She lives in Sydney but travels for her work as well. We shared cat stories, she shared her experience of localizing with her partner and now filing for citizenship. I am still not sure if I would stay here permanently or else my kitties would be down here in a heartbeat. The apartment that I am living in now is across the street from a night club. They have extremely loud and vibrating live music on the weekends. One week they also woke me up on a Wednesday night with the howling maniacs in front. Now am looking for another place to live in the "city suburbs" instead of the CBD (central business district). I can tell I am definately getting old when the noise factor is bothering me. Living in tall city buildings = sound filter magnified.

Here is one last note for this posting....it's May and I have my shipment of stuff finally in Sydney port - quarrantined. Dont' know when it will be shipped to my location in Melbourne. January > May - good timing to get my comforters and sweaters! I am freezing at night with my bathrobe, first knitted cardigan as my blanket at night and wooley socks on my feet. Therefore I am not having a very good month thus far. One good note, my house was rented end of March. Still bleeding money out of every orifice but I don't notice it if I don't have time to know any difference. A nice meal in the evening cost $50 Aussie dollars; translates to ~$35 USD.

Enough of the Babylon for now.....Cheers and Ta!

Photo Safari

2009-04-12T18:59:00.000-07:00

Here are my highlight photos from Tanzania. We went to Tangerie National Park, Ngorongoro Crater and then the Seregeti National Park for 4 nights of camping; to view the wildlife. I woke up 2 nights in Seregenti by lion noises; they were that close in our camp. Learned the animals in Swahili. All a terrific experience for the adventurous. These photos are from Tangerie National Park...there were more animals (e.g. lionesses) that we saw but these photos were the closest and the best from my little sure-shot Olympus camera.

Yes, they get that close to us in the jeeps.

This is the smallest antelope in Africa called 'dikdik'.

Sunrise at the Berunge Camp site where are permanent luxurious tents were pitched on wooden platforms.

More animal pics to follow...only can upload so much a day.

Entry from a Globe Trotter

2009-04-04T21:28:00.000-07:00

In case anyone is wondering and still reading here....I am home in Melbourne from a month-long sabbatical. The trip entailed flying to California for the Jane Thornley workshop in San Juan Capistrano, Oxnard condo stay, to flying to Tanzania via Amsterdam to start my African safari. Then I flew back via Amserdam to LAX, stayed overnight then flew back the next evening to Melbourne. It's not world travel; it's globe trotting! I did this before when I lived in the UK: flew back to US to fly to New Zealand only to return back to the States to get back to the UK for work in 2005.

I kept a paper journal of the daily events while in Africa so I will not be rewriting the details here. My photos are not great since I ony have a small Olympus shure-shot camera with just a 3x zoom. Others in my travel group had a 10x zoom or a 200x lens on their digitals. I am not worthy for technology this time around; I used to be queen of technology on such trips. I am loosing my touch or probably more pre-occupied for such priorities. Once I have my photos and others' available, I will be posting them here in another entry. The winner of imagery is between seeing lion cubs in a pride or watching a newborn gazelle takes it first steps, slimy with the birthing on it still. Now I see how the Lion King story was created. There is the 'circle of life' while in the Ngorongoro Crater.

Here is what I have to say about Africa: everyone should take the opportunity to see this developing country to understand how we take EVERYTHING for granted in life. Yes, I know some of you wouldn't want to take such a trip because it's uncomfortable or inconvenient to your king and queen lifestyles. It is a life changing experience to visit with the local African tribe and learn about the differences of our cultures.

As for now...I am very jet lagged and I imagine it will take a full week before I am really back to normal.

"I love your Accent!"

2009-02-27T13:21:00.000-08:00

Here are more of my adventure of Down Under before I return to the States. In case you are wondering; I am returning for my Sabbatical and then to the African safari.

A bunch of very young girls heard me speaking at the tram stop in the evening. I said something and they all said, "I love your accent!" Isn't that great! I have always been facinated by Aussie accents as well. I am surprised that they understand me when I speak faster however I am not able to understand when they speak faster with their cool accents. Even an American here cannot undertstand me but then there is something wrong with the other American in my company...(long story)

Walking around the city for more sites. They are famous for the beautiful art in the ally ways.

Still love the Victorian buildings in Albert Park. This is where I have found a wonderful yarn shop, same as what I used to hang around in Anacapa Fine Yarn in Ventura.

Here is a Magpie couple in a park, female squawking at me for food.

Then of course I couldn't resist in buying another project to make - my shipment of stash is STILL in Long Beach. They are waiting for my crate to fill a vessel before it's shipping overseas. The yarn store is called "Wool Baa" in Albert Park.

Work: had a successful client session event that was straight foward on what is to be presented. It marks a mid-way point of our events but lots of work to accomplish before the system goes "live". They love my story of the "Black Robbers" that was circling around in the USA emails and also a true story. It's a good story to break the ice while reflecting the same perspective with our project efforts. Have to be creative for the audience to keep them awake and amused for such drone material. I just keep knitting when I can in the evenings; long hours in the office prevents me to finish as fast as I did while in US. Hard to be on conference calls since I worked out of my home office. Here I am in a real office every day - no knitting during the working hours.

Finally got a fridge, washer and furniture in the apartment. But before all that was in, I took this photo: my sole worldly possessions in the official first night staying there. What would I do without my ladybug?

More Creature Comforting

2009-02-06T04:13:00.000-08:00

More hot and thirsty Koala photos...these were sent to me; I wish I had that in-person encounter. Poor guy had to stop a bicyclist for water. Some day when I have my real life back....

Creatures of Australia and Misc.

2009-02-04T13:11:00.000-08:00

Have secured my apartment so I will have a wonderful view of the city and the torches along the South Bank at night. Moving all my immediate belongings in weekend of 16 Feb even though I have access starting the 6th. Taking advantage of all amenities for free while I still have the time alloted.

Here are cute photos that were sent....a result of the dry hot heat we are having down here. Otherwise, I will be very consumed in work and moving therefore not be blogging too much in the next few weeks. Enjoy the expressions in these photos - I couldn't stop smiling when I first saw these.

"It has been so hot in South Australia for over a week…40+ degrees Celsius everyday, very dry also.

A guy at work lives at Maude. His wife sent him these photos of a little Koala which just walked into the back porch looking for a bit of heat relief. She filled up a bucket and this is what happened!"

People in Melbourne and Misc.

2009-01-31T21:27:00.000-08:00

Last Friday night after work, a bunch of us went around on a pub-crawl. We ended up in "Squires"; part of the Portland Hotel on Russel Street. I ordered fish & chips and round of drinks for my colleagues. Meanwhile, the men's semi-final Australia open was on the TV. I was rooting for Verdasco since Nadal is #1 seed. I want to see the underdog win. There was a guy in the pub who made a bet with me: I buy him a drink if Nadal wins the first set / he buys me a drink if Verdasco wins the first set. Low and behold, I got a free pint out of it! What a sweet guy - he was half my age and from the area called Fitzroy, his name is Donnie. I didn't have my camera with me or else I would have definately taken a photo of us. He said that they all love Obama down here. Yes - they do love us Americans even though they are contained under the Commonwealth.

Went home appliance shopping today at the "Good Guys"; which is the equivalent to our Amercian "Best Buy". Selected a washing macine, vacuum cleaner and microwave all to be scheduled for delivery when the washer is available. Attempted to use my corporate credit card from the States and couldn't use it. I guess the security on this is working. Amercian card being used on extraordinary credit purchasing amounts. Last weekend it was David Jones charges for the chair and bed purchase. 2 more weeks in my temporary confines and waiting for my acceptance into the Bourke Street city apartment.

The public transport is very easy here. MetCard purchase includes trains, buses and trams - how cool is that? Too bad California couldn't be that gracious. People on these public transports all speak different languages; made me feel right at home in Southern California. Unfortunately, I am not dressed as a girly-girl with sleeveless tank tops anymore. Not exactly a Vogue model here from the States :P The locals here are very helpful when you are asking for directions and help to get around. In Los Angeles, you are lucky you find someone who is willing to not think of themselves in order to help out.

Found great Indian food here but I think I ate the wrong item yesterday....my tummy has not been the same. Cropped up some IBS issues (irritable bowel syndrome). Nice to have when in the stifling summer heat waiting for the tram with other people.

Otherwise, I am knitting up a storm. I am finishing up one sleeve for Flo's Blossom remake and finished one cashmere sock for Frank; top down size 2 needles. I made him a pair toe up size 0 and I am thinking of redoing them since they turned out too large and clumsy looking than the top-down. When I redo that first pair, I will use size 1 needles since I have already severed the yarn for the one sock. I miss hanging out with the Ventura knitn kitns and wondering if they really miss me. Waiting for all of my stash to arrive in shipment April. Yes, all of my yarn stash is coming over here. I get the feeling that the quality of fibers here will not be the same.

Stifling Heat and Drought

2009-01-30T17:14:00.000-08:00

Yup...just like living in California again.

This past week, finally got my temporary place sprayed for bugs and the bathroom sink unclogged by a plummer. Also getting identity checked by the apartment management company I have been selected to be the renter. More paperwork and checks to get here. Apparently these folks have taken stringent security precautions for anyone to enter, work and live here in this country since 911 tragedy.

Been watching the Australia Open (hooked on it since last weekend) and it's now down to the finals. I thought of going down there to see a live match but the heat and crowds are not for me. I see the plays much better on the TV anyway. Melbourne park does show the match on a screen but once again...heat and crowds. Wanted to see Nadal lose last night for the sake of seeing Verdasco the underdog win. Guess it will be a rematch of Wimbeldon with Federer and Nadal. Haven't been watching much of the woman's matches. Good luck Serena!

Today I selected more furniture for my antipcated place and a fridge from Brooke, our admin support in the office. Just a matter of scheduling movers to pick this stuff up and move it in. Still needing to get a microwave, TV and washer/dryer. I have to find a place first where I can get all of these items in one place; Good Guys, whatever.

Noticing sayings with people:
"heaps" - translates to 'a lot'
"on the back foot" - translates to 'being behind'
"bloke"

There are others but I cannot understand them as they say them too fast for me. Far dikcum (spelling?) was what I thought is a common saying but nobody I have run across has said that yet.

Australia Day!

2009-01-30T16:28:00.000-08:00

Posting on the last day of January living in my fourth continent....

They eat Skippy down here! I found out last week that they eat kangaroo meat down here on the BBQ. They cannot cook it too long or else it becomes too tough to eat. So...they eat mutton and kangaroo. Have I eaten any yet? No way. I ate a silk worm larvae while visiting in Korea and that is about the extent of my adventurous taste testing. My apetite is happily decreasing with the very hot dry weather now and the fact that I am walking everywhere. My mid section is finally feeling a bit trimmer.

On Australia day (last Monday), I went to Port Melbourne. It was an equivalent to San Pedro harbor in Los Angeles but much cleaner and prettier! There are ferries or ships that go to Tasmania from here. Because it was a holiday, there was the Young Endeavor and The Enterprise ships sailing in and out of the port. What a nice surprise! I LOVE authentic vessels like these.

Young Endeavor - replica of the ship that Capt. Cook came over to Australia in.

The Enterprise

Wishful thinking...the barge you see in the background, I was fantasising that all of my shipped belongings were arriving into port. Haha

St. Kilda Beach (reminds me of Miami Beach). I realised that my thick American accent is not always understood. When I was asking a woman about the ships approaching if it's a race or an event...she said "Talk to my husband, I can't understand what you are saying". If I talked to a husband in America, I would have been slapped by that woman. Such subtle social differences here.
Have to find the time to get to Tasmania and find a devil. I was told from a man I met watching the boats come in that there are not many left.

Off to shopping I go - bought this bed

and this chair and ottoman but will be in grey-pewter color

Down on Elizabeth street, I felt like I was visiting mini-Korea. Here is an artist doing the beautiful name banner in pictures....same what I saw in Seoul in 2000.

Then there was this poor pathetic 76 y/o performing with a sign in front of him stating he was injured during the Korean war

He is standing on a box with a hoola hoop with this garb on. A little bit of Venice Beach flashback.

More City Scenes

2009-01-24T21:47:00.000-08:00

Took this photo on my way to the Immigration office early morning; I love the old gothic church structures they have here. It's not the whole church but the morning light was shining through that window in the steeple just at the right time.

Yes, I am a foreigner! Got my 457 working VISA in my passport - I am official as a working employee now.

Here is the river that separates the city of Melbourne; similar to the River Thames in London. Much cleaner and more modern here.

Hmmm...I don't remember all of this high risers when I was here in 1986! It definately has grown and there are still more high riser building in progress all around the city. These river photos were taken from the south bank where a wonderful line of restaurants were - I can't wait to try eating at one of them; some more expensive than others. At 9 PM a line of torches blume out flames about 3 times. The apartment I chose (or the owner chose me; that is how it works here) has that view from the living area. I do notice that women really dress up on Saturday nights here. Something we don't pay much attention to in California. Guess I need to dust off my business casual outfits more so. Unfortunately, I only have fall/winter ones.

More photos to come as I peruse the areas.

Living Update

2009-01-24T17:03:00.001-08:00

Realized that I should have opened bank accounts in another bank that doesn't charge monthly transaction fees. So at the moment I have 4 accounts opened.

Went on a private apartment inspection based on a work colleague referral (check out the link while it's there!). It took me several hours afterwards but I did call him back and said that I will take the place, unfurnished. It's close the the very large Southern Cross train station, tram stop right in front of the entrance, swimming pool and exercise room including tennis courts. This means I have to go out and get stuff starting from scratch. This will give me an opportunity to experience Australian consumerism. I will stay in the temporary bug infested apartment until I have a comfy bed and eating conveniences in the new place! Take a look at my buddy in the temporay apartment I found this morning. This is the result of community living.

Photo Catchup

2009-01-24T16:48:00.000-08:00

I realized that I did have the plug adapter to plug my camera battery charger in the Australia wall, the converter is already included in the whole unit, duh! Here are pictures.

Yup, they have a Chinatown here in Melbounre

How can you be anywhere in this world without a McDonalds?

Down hidden ally ways there are cool pubs, coffee kiosks and bistros

Then I ran into the local artist George Kamikawa on Bourke Street (central shopping area of CBD); the Japanese cowboy. I am a sucker for live music entertainment.

Then I found him again this weekend while walking along the south bank to Queensbridge square so I had to get more photos of him with me this time.

ObamaRama!

2009-01-21T13:16:00.000-08:00

Since 20 January - Presidential inaugeral ceremony, parade and balls were all over Australia TV news! They really are looking forward to a new era with Obama in office. Didn't realize that they are so attached to us Americans. I forgot how they actually listen to us when we speak! A sense of autonomy has returned - hurray!

Opened a bank account yesterday; no problems despite what I was told. I guess my tons of American Travelers' checks didn't stop the ANZ bank

Still having difficulty obtaining my corporate AMEX credit card - there are gotchas that the HR representative failed to tell me about; I think she doesn't give a fuck other than "get it done asap"! You know how I respond in rebuttal fashion for missing communications :)

Meeting client personalities; they are the same as in America but the term "cheeky" is more prevalent for one in mind. We term that personality 'annoying'.

I think I am finally getting over the jet lag. This morning I woke up at 5 AM instead of 2 or 3 AM Aussie time. Once I feel like I am in the real time zone, I can see myself thinking of socialising (Aussie spelling) in this culture. Still waiting to find the time to get the right power cord for my camera battery.

In the meantime - bye bye Bush!! It's a new era and a new life for me.

I HAVE ARRIVED

2009-01-18T23:34:00.000-08:00

I am here in Melbourne - uneventful flight and it was quick! The only mishap was that there was nobody at the apartment to give me the key; no concierge to let me in etc. Thank goodness the taxi driver from Melbourne airport allowed me to use his phone to call the building manager. Building manager called the contact for my access to the apartment and the rest is history.

It has definately changed since 1986! More Asian population than I remember; only a handful of Black or Afro-Australians on the street. What is funny is this place reminds me of British California: the young Asian girls are walking around with hiked up dresses or skirts and stileto heels. California we see the young Hispanic girls dressed like that. I love their accents! I am going to really like it here even though I have problems understanding them when they speak fast.

I have taken photos of the downtown areas but haven't uploaded to this PC yet. I am conserving energy in the battery because I need to find an Olympic store that sells the battery charger adapter to Australian current. My portable converter set doesn't seem to work :( I have bought my first weekly tram/train transport ticket to ride the public rails throughout the city. I just have to remember what side of the street to stand in order to get on the tram that is going the direction I want. Damn the left-sided transporters here! Haven't been run over by crossing the street yet since I look in the right direction before crossing; just disoriented on the trams.

Here is the rundown of similarities:
-McDonalds EVERYWHERE! Yuk!
-Burger Kings everywhere as well but they are called "Hungry Jacks"
-Starbucks Coffee (of course)
-Virgin Records
-Cable cars everywhere for transport just like being in San Francisco
-Weather and ambient air is absolutely wonderful; just like being in Southern California
-Street performers (bought my first CD from a Japanese artist who plays honky tonk blues)
-People honk in their cars while driving impatiently

Subtle Differences:
-Getting used their currency and coins; paper currency all have different colors like other countries
-David Jones is their large department store (haven't had the time to shop there nor ambition)
-Showers do not exist in homes; they bathe with a half glass on the tub to shelter the floor from the shower head (just like the UK)
-Spelling of their words are taken from the British spelling e.g. Centre and colour
-They drive on the left side of the street with the steering column in the right side of the car
-Their local coffee shops sell instant coffee and not the bean/grounded coffee (YUK!)

I am sure I will come across more similarities and differences as time marches on. My priority is to get myself burried in the current project of work and find my own apartment and health care here in the great state of Victoria - Australia. Photos will follow once I have access to power to my battery charger.

Changing My Mind

2009-01-13T15:22:00.000-08:00

No...not changing my mind to stay here in the US (gawd!!)
Changed my mind and not hiring an attorney to represent me in court for the speeding ticket. By the time I return as a resident, it will be the only driving mark against my record - replacing my doomed accident which I had 4 years ago April. Switch one point against me for another by the time I am back.

I believe it is time for me to take a break from this country. It's a shame that all other countries have to rely on our economy and living through the bureaucracy e.g. traffic violations and driving records is just fucked!!

Last minute stuff to take care of before I am really offline:
-Reinforce boxes for shipping pickup tomorrow
-TV and foam pads to my neighbor
-Complete Honda transaction tomorrow and get rental car for one day
-Give Tag Gilbert the other house key and door openers
-Throw out all remaining food from fridge...there is a science project growing in there anyway
-Miata DMV form for state transfer

Today's adventure:
-Lost my ATM card yesterday (yesterday was a bad day) and got a temp one for 30 days. By then, I will have the permanent replacement when I return in March
-Wrote a check to property management to get this place rental ready
-Had a potential renter come through; more likely to rent this but there are other interested callers :)
-Packed the rest of my clothes hangning in the closet; realized I will be paying an extra luggage fee of $125 for all the crap that I need to bring with me on the plane

Ok....I am now really not able to log anymore entries here. My life needs to focus on closure for these last 2 days. C...ya from the Southern Hemisphere!!

Can't seem to Get out of Here

2009-01-12T15:13:00.000-08:00

Got a speeding ticket up 33 to Ojai so I can contribute my remaining cat supplies to Humane Society. CHPS got me for 15 over the limit. Funny how this is pissing me off and happening right before I leave the country. This happened to me in Riverside county when I wanted to leave to live in the UK 3 years ago. I think I am a target for the overseas adventures. Again....have to hire a traffic attorney to represent me in my designated court date. The price to pay off an attorney is more than the violation itself; but I want to make sure this moving violoation is not on my record that has an accident on it from 3-4 years ago. (Can I get a fucking break anywhere?) I can't go to traffic school and I am out of the country in 3 days. Didn't have proof of insurance in the car since I am selling this vehicle and all paperwork was cleaned out!!!

Then there is the 457 working VISA dilema.....I have been approved for an electronic visiting VISA to Australia but cannot work until I get a "health check"; that is now scheduled next Monday when I am in Melbourne. Meanwhile, my house is creepy with nothing in it and my clothes yet to be packed in the suit cases. Wednesday is when the shipping company will arrive to pick up my stuff to ship. Also the day when this car is completing the sale. When is this all going to end?

This society doesn't realize that I am really doing this shit all by myself. If it wasn't for my friends helping me with the house sale and packing up my crap, I wouldn't be in a good position to move at this time. Too much shit going on and I think I need to cease logging my events in here until I am over there. I give up everyone! My US work phone is going away Wednesday including the internet access. Hey, at least I got my hair colored and cut before the big move...woohooo!

See you all Down Under! "God Bless America" and good luck to this country!

Closure and Exhaustion

2009-01-11T14:28:00.001-08:00

Things accomplished:
-Cleaned out the corners of my house for another Battered Women pickup and trash
-Signed papers for rental property management with Tag Gilbert
-Collected hazardous materials on the property for appropriate disposal
-Felt exuberant when trashing items into the dumpster in the front of the house
-Scheduled a dinner with Stephanie Scott Sunday evening; one is scheduled for Tuesday with Preita
-Sorting through more things to ship and now sorting on what I need to travel with on flight
-Received notification that the electronic "Business Electronic Travel Authority" is available; a paperless visa which does not allow me to work there yet until I get the Subclass 457 approved
-Scheduled my required x-ray and exam to complete Subclass 457 VISA to work Down Under
-Closed my AMEX account

Camille came over again yesterday to help out in the remaining items to trash, sort or take home with her as well. It's amazing on how much us humans cling to in life. Have to remember that what I am shipping to Australia will need to ship back with me when I return. This means I need to watch what I am accumulating in the next 4 years or else I will have to sell or give away the crap again.

I have now parsed out what is left for me to do before I leave Thursaday evening:

Monday
-Obtain 5 passport photos for my Clinic medical exam
-Call City Hall to report abandoned car in front of my house that is now leaking fluid under the engine (hope it's not human body fluid!)
-Also ask City Hall on where I can dispose of hazardous materials (Mark has volunteered to take this box but I said I will hold it to understand where it should be disposed)
-Check on what Australian bank is affiliated with BofA
-Contact TSA to make sure I can flight internationally with my knitting needles
-Go to my clinic appointment for the 457 VISA requirement
-Initiate hotel stays at Marriott

Tuesday
-Fax needed medical forms for 457 VISA process completion
-Pay Charter cable and E.J Harrison (garbage disposal) on last remaining charges
-Call Western Schools for course order for R.N. continuing ed
-Pack clothes and immediate items for the flight; ensure all shipping items are counted including my window coverings
-Humane Society for donations

Wednesday
-Return foam to my neighbor (that was a life saver for sleeping on the floor)
-Give the large TV to same neighbor; won't be watching TV after this point
-Complete Honda transaction and obtain rental car
-Dispose of all remaining food items in fridge
-Hilford shipping pickup
-Sort through remaining paperwork and bills
-Accomplish anything left over from Monday and Tuesday

Thursday
-DMV for both vehicle transfer
-Obtain bank deposit slips for Tag; cash for the next 2 months of my life
-Deliver keys, door opener and bank slips to Tag Gilbert
-Return rental car
-Transport to LAX!!!

Life here in Ventura County is definately coming to a closure. I am exhausted and hope to look forward to a full day of sleep when I am in Melbourne Astra Apartments.

Cave of Doom

2009-01-09T17:38:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was a bad day...I was feeling overwhelmed again and there wasn't much around me; just paperwork to process my VISA and employement that they only sent to me the evening before. "Hurry up and sign this Cheryl, because we are non compliant with the immigration legislation with the 'electronic visa' ". Of course it's my fault for not signing quickly as I am in the midst of many other personal business that I alone am taking care of. The damn paperwork was faxed and sent over the key stakeholders. Let's see how fast they can process this work VISA for my entry. Or else I may be leaving later than I think.

With the suggestion of Camille, I stayed in a hotel room with my many hotel points in town. I have to admit, I did finally get a decent night's sleep. Only back to the cave of doom. Max, the Disabled Vet representative finally showed up with his son to pick up the remaining large pieces of furniture - I am only left with a 3x3 bookshelf, cocktail table and the table where the large TV is on. Cocktail table is going to Stephanie; TV table going to Mark. I will be staying at the Marriott again Mon-Thursday before I leave for sleeping comfort. It's a matter of really clearing out the remaining stuff I want to ship. Shipping folks are scheduled to pick up my stuff on the 14th.

Battered Women Thrift charity came to pick up ALL the remaining junk that I had left over from the home sale. I rescheduled another pickup for next week to get the kitchen stuff that I am still using until then (dishware, glassware, etc.).

Had visits from a handyman and a painter to get this place rental ready - you can imagine that I have had lots of traffic through here and I burned out! Signed paperwork with Tag Gilbert to get the rental management going. Just have to give him bank deposit slips, keys and the door opener when I am out of here. Painting and handywork is scheduled for Tuesday next week. Tag told me there is already an interested party to look at the place. The garbage dumpster arrived this morning. I had to knock on my neighbor's door to get them to move their truck parked where I want the dumpster. Found out that my next door neighbor is paying $1800/month rent for a place that had drain problems and the heat doesn't work! I think I am fair on what I am asking for this place that has a locked shed for storage, large and landscaped backyard, heating and all major appliances. Not to mention a newly fixed sewage line to the street.

Things I have yet to do:

-Call Ventura City to report abandoned car in front of my house; leaking fluids under the engine (I can tell it has been there too long!)
-Doctor's appt in L.A. for immigration process (Monday)
-Pay the TV cable bill when it arrives
-Pay the home owner's insurance
-Check on the Aussie bank affiliation with BofA
-Complete the Honda transaction and send Miata plates and Honda transfer form into DMV
-Call Western Schools to see if they can send a course to Mark's address; will work on this in March when I return
-Call Firestation to see if they can take my hazardous materials off this property
-Pack one more box of my remaining things to ship overseas

Getting Down to the Wire

2009-01-07T23:11:00.000-08:00

Today I started a dose of glucosamine for my left hip. I can't seem to find time to do my usual walk up to Grant Park and down to the pier with work and trying to get my moving business accomplished day after day. My knitting time has ceased because of the shit I still have to do....getting frustrated on that note.

Found out that my passport faxed to Melbourne will do for the immigration process. I still have not seen my employement agreement for my signature to work there...hah! Meanwhile, I am trying to find any charity to take the remaining pieces of furniture from the house sale. Bought more yarn at Anacapa: can't resist the collective colors of the Blue Heron rayon metallic! Got Pumpkin pie, Aubergine and Deep Space/Gold. Couldn't resist Malibrigo yarn as well. So I think I wrapped up my SABLE (stash accumulation beyond life expectancy) for the overseas trek. Filled out forms for the shipping of my belongings that I have packed for faxing tomorrow. I still have another big box to fill up with last remaining stuff. Decided to keep the one cookware set that didn't sell and my pink tupperware set - rare! Also keeping my new pieces of tupperware as well. These items will be in a box that will be stored at my friend Mark's house in Camarillo.

Found out that I cannot bring my bottles of red wine that I collected/bought from here to New Zealand. Guess I need to store that with Mark as well.

I met with Tag Gilbert, the agent who will rent out my house. More forms to fill out. Contacted my home owner's insurance agent for the new "landlord" policy change.
Got an appointment with Disabled Veterans for the guy to come over and see if he wants to take my remaining furniture.

I think emotions are starting up again because I realize these are my last days here before I really take off. My current client in Bakersfield finally got the word that I am leaving, my project team got the message as well today. Closure is coming up very shortly and I feel as though I don't have everything settled. Pacing myself to finish things is the only way to survive or else I will need more medication than joint issues. I see myself staying at the full-service Marriott before I leave next week :)

Still not Official but am Living the Vida Loca!

2009-01-06T19:11:00.000-08:00

T-9 days to go in the US and Australia doesn't have my Employment Agreement ready for my signature. Meanwhile, other folks are asking for my immigration stuff to process and inform me that I cannot travel to Australia until they are completed. I already booked by flight to leave 15th and that seems to be threatened. Then I proceed to get another message saying to keep my travel plan as booked; hopefully my immigration stuff will come through by the time I arrive. Do you suspect someone in retainment in Melbourne airport on the 17th Aussie time?

St. Vincent De Paul Thrift shop finally arrive to pick up my remaining furniture and state that they cannot take anything apart since the don't have tools. Jan 14 is a rescheduled date for them to come out and they want the entertainment center taken apart and my bedroom set out in the same room so they can pick it all up. I think I will take the Center and the mirror off the bedroom dresser but will not move the furniture all in one room! For goodness sakes....I am giving these and my nice patio furniture to them for free, fuck them for a compromise.

Pete my shipping coordinator has informed me on the pricing and scheduled a date to pick up my stuff that is packed and stowed in my shed. The 15th is the date that all my stuff will be picked up and will ship arriving in April into Melbourne.

Rolled up all my pennies and brought them to the bank for another deposit.

Packing up other things for the Battered Women charity for Thursday...having hard time packing up my last set of cookware when I have a fridge full of food to eat up. Went to Trader Joe's to get milk for my cereal and ended up getting more food to cook while I am still here :P

Last night I slept on firm foam that was provided by my neighbor instead of sleeping on the hard carpeting. Oh, I had a wonderful night sleep! Until my dodgy left hip woke me up in the middle of the night again in pain. Can't wait for Australia to make myself walk this pain out. It is strange to sleep in an empty house, it will be to the point that I may want to really want to get out of here by next week anyway. Problem is that my kitchen is still fully loaded with living ammenities. Must clear this out by this weekend!

Faxed my passport for electronic form for Australia immigration process; not that clear but it's the best that can be done for now...waiting for copies of my diplomas that I accidentally put in the box shipped in my Miata. My parents are sending the photocopies to me so I can fax those as well for Australia immigration. I guess they need proof that I am an educated woman. Sent my updated internal resume to Australia office; guess they need that for the HR records like all employees.

Jack Denny - Hero

2009-01-06T08:10:00.000-08:00

I am singling out Mr. Jack Denny who belongs to Kim David. He truly was a wonderful help with my house sale and muscles to help carry out the furniture that was selling quickly - thanks Jack!

Swarming Locust & The Point of no Return

2009-01-05T18:16:00.000-08:00

More things accomplished:
-Booked Qantas flight to Melbourne to depart evening of 1/15/09; my time is truly limited here
-Emailed Tag Gilbert to get the home rental situation going
-Sorted out what to be sold versus trashed; still calling charities for pickups
-Finally received my passport back from PVS International with my African VISA; now I cannot find my diplomas that I set out to copy with my passport for the Aussie immigration process. If it's one thing I can find, I lose something else in this chaos.
-Finalized the Geico car insurance application for my Miata in Florida
-Paid my property tax; completing the year until the next statement for 2009
-Contacted and met my shipping coordinator, Pete, who will find out the cost effective means of my things to be shipped and to arrive when I will be back there post Africa
-Conducted the big house purge sale; completed brain fried from being overstimulated. People swarming all around me and in all my cupboards trying to buy even things I am still using. (Note: I am NOT a garage sale seller or buyer)
-Discontinued my home phone service since my phones were sold in my home sale
-Transferred my reward points from AMEX and Diners to hotel points for free stays, these accounts will be closed soon
-Sold my Honda during the house sale

This photo is the outside of the first day's sale:

Here is another one where my helper friends are exhausted just like me

...and the happy picture after me having a real drink after this chaotic day. I don't think I would have survived without my friends that helped. (Kim David, Betsy, Camille, me and Kim Boone-Nakase) I was completed exhausted in this photo and reflected on how I will not do this again!

Sunday was more subdued with one guy returning from the day before; he made off with my ratchet set hidden in my tool box that he bought from me. Oh well, so much for the professional garage sale buyers. I guess I am in the wrong business. With no beds to sleep on and no living room furniture (except for the monstrous entertainment center) I am definately up to say that this is a point of no return for me. It's all about moving out of here and down under. Last week I was emotional while in Florida with my kitty girls. It was PMS! But then, who would really go through this uprooting life change and trauma anyway?

Things to accomplish this week:
-Pack additional things for Battered Women Charity; pickup scheduled 1/8/09
-Receive the dumpster 1/9/09 to throw out remaining unsalvagable items
-Visit DMV to return Miata plates and understand transfer process of my Honda when I turn the vehicle over to the new owner 1/14/09
-Check out Western Schools for R.N. renewal course for next 2 yrs
-Cancel Netflix once I receive the last couple DVD's
-Roll up my big jar of pennies to redeem $$
-Determine how much cash I want to travel with to start Aussie bank account

I think that is enough for this week

2009 - Progress Leading to More to Accomplish

2009-01-01T18:23:00.000-08:00

Finally home to my nightmare household. Got the word that my Miata has arrived in Florida today as I am arriving home myself and my cats are purring when both my parents are in the room with them, including high-strung Ditto. Only a couple evenings ago I was talking with Flo on the phone and broke down with all that is ahead of me.

Here are photos to catch up on the traumatic cat travels:
12/23 - Night before the big travel.
Ditto receiving comfort from Freckles; first time I saw them that close together as though they are from the same litter.

Freckles getting checked in and security checked before moving on the belt to the plane:

Long ride home from Orlando airport and poor Freckles soiled her cushiony bed during the flight. Both were very hungry when I finally got their food out at my parents home.

Photos of Christmas day feast: Dad carving and nibbling the meat while Mom has all the fixings on the table.

Ditto got dibbs sleeping at the head of the bed this time since Freckles had the head of the bed in my house. At the beginning she was under the bed. Caught her stretched out like a happy bunny at the foot of the bed after eating a large spoonful of Iams Salmon pate.

Freckles was comfortable right away; first had Ragedy Ann as her companion then took on her guardian and hunter duties as normal.

...and here is another rare moment of Zhen before my house sale chaos begins this weekend. No true words can describe the condition of this house other than 'uncomfortable'.

I am pleased to know that there will be several friends driving up from Orange and Santa Barbara Counties to help me Saturday and possibly through Sunday. There is a ray of sunshine around me after all. I am getting emotional more often now with the looming chaos around me. I want this coming weekend to be over quickly. See you all on the flip side!

Traveling with Animals and other Mishaps

2008-12-29T10:45:00.000-08:00

Christmas Eve: Hell started when I couldn't get Freckles to take the sedation med easily. Then arrived late to the small commuter airport in Oxnard. They couldn't fly both animals since they claimed one will freeze in cargo but my reservation didn't have both cats on the file. Dumbass United strikes again! As I missed the early morning flight at 6 AM I am trying to keep my temper at a medium burn as I lost count of how many times the female agents said, "You need to get here earlier to process these animals...", no matter how many times I kept answering - "you don't have them on the reservation so how does this matter?" Even after I called the customer service line to get the cats on the reservation, the counter agent said that statement ONE MORE TIME!! I ignored her based on the fact that her ignorance must be her fucking bliss. Very stressful start of the holiday season to say the least. Had to drive my vehicle to LAX and park it here, take their lot shuttles to United counter and check Freckles in thru the 'Odd Size' counter. (Don't have my camera cable and my own PC to upload the photos so they will come in another post.) Have to admit, the sedation worked for Ditto, she didn't squeak a peep out of her during the whole 5 hour flight time. When Freckles was brought out, she was screaming and she did soil herself. Good thing I had the cushiony bed with thick bumpers inside the kennel for absorption and protection. It was like traveling with a padded psych kennel for her.

My work PC had a problem with the keyboard so I called before I left on the trip to have my company send me a laptop shell to switch out my hardrive into the shell that is supposed to work. They ended up sending me a defective one; didn't try this out fully until I sent my old one back via FedEx by then. Called them again and they want my hardrive and shell all sent to them before they send it out again. Had to pay for packing materials since this shipping place in Florida ran out of the computer boxes. FedEx label doesn't account for the shipping (bubble wrap/peanuts) materials. Now I have to face how I am to expense that with my company - it was their fault for putting me through this mishap.

Otherwise, I am resting as much as possible knowing that I have a major house sale this weekend. People are already calling to see if they can come by before the weekend. The nerve of these people. I don't get it - they will be the ones that don't buy anything; just make the noise to sound important. Well, I think the boxed up stuff that I want to put through the sale will remain boxed up for people to rummage through. I am not planning to spend lots of time to display things out in an organized fashion. Sorry, this is a moving sale not a 'get rid of my knick/knacks' sale.

Chaos and Pain Cont'd

2008-12-23T14:23:00.000-08:00

For a while today I thought I lost Ditto. She was running away from me when I was trying to groom her. One of her eyes is draining - just like the symptom of a cold, still sneezing, etc. She finally showed up wanting to sleep; I think she had her 'walkabout'. Tomorrow morning is when I sedate both cats for the plane ride to Florida.

Transferred yarn from a bin to the rubbermaid garbage can. I do have yarn, needles and knitting books to sell in my house sale. I can't believe that I had a box of floppy discs with data on them in that garbage can. Does anyone remember that media?

Called Abednego Book, a recycling place, and scheduled a pickup of all of my books (including old textbooks from school) Friday Jan.2.

Called AMEX - have to schedule cancelation of account when the next billing cycle is over (mid-Jan 2009)

Decided that I will not pack anything more so in the house so people can see what I have e.g. in the kitchen. I get the feeling that there will be a mess of clothes and shit everywhere when people pick through the box of items now.

Contacted PVS International and asked for the Phillipine woman, Bles, who I spoke to yesterday about my passport situation. The reason I know she is Phillipine is becaused I recognize the accent and the lack of understanding of communication when she was on the phone with me today. She said that they can't find my diplomas - I interrupted her and said that I didn't send diplomas, I am looking for my passport. Had to re-explain the situation again to her since she proceeded to cut me off in my explanation. Some customer service. She put me on hold for a moment and said "My manager said that they have retrieved your passport but they didn't process the VISA..." DUH!! I should have asked for the fucking manager!! Bles proceeded to ask if I want to express process the VISA. I proceeded to lose my temper and stated why it it not necessary to exrpess process, talking in a robot manner so she would not interrupt me anymore. I think it was the accent that was disturbing me since it reminded me of my bedside nursing days working with those Phillipine nurses. Language barrier and they didn't seem to have appropriate affect in people skills because of it. Clearly they had their sex pronouns reverse..that was fun to always correct.

Onward...have to go the bank for the car transfer documents.

Chaos and Pain

2008-12-23T09:30:00.000-08:00

This is all really happening. As you will see reading through this, socializing is extremely limited for me here on out. I have no significant other or family members to help me with this big move. Unless I receive offers to help out with these arrangements, I will not be able to visit with people before my departure. Somehow I don't think others see this as a big loss for the given effort. This is a tremendous uprooting of my life and it hit me emotionally when they hauled my Miata away.

This past weekend, I had a couple friends over (Stephanie and Betsy) to help me go through my stuff in boxes, cubbie holes and closets sorting out what I want to ship with me and what I want to give away/sell. 2 sets of neighbors came over to look through my house; I sold both my TV's!!

Going through the memories was not as bad as I thought. Realizing that I can't fit into many of the clothes sitting in the "other" closet was a 'crack-heroine' dream that I would be that small again. Then my "Scooter" was picked up to ship to Florida - now I know this is REALLY happening!

Current accomplishments:
-Got the cats vaccines, tested sedation on them with a result of Ditto with a slight cold with sneezing. She will be in the cabin with me. United carrier only allows one animal in the cabin and others in cargo. They both have their Revolution heartworm monthly dose to start.

-Contacted Battered Women's charity to schedule a pickup for my leftover junk Jan. 8

-Sorted out the things shipping with me and the others for the big moving sale and charity give-aways. Filled 2 trash cans and accumulating garbage in bags within the house. Bedrooms are pretty much cleared out with furniture standing and boxes for the moving sale for people to pick through.

-Contacted PVS International twice to see what happened to my passport; they have not retrieved it yet from Tanzania Embassy; I haven't seen my return receipt back from the mail. So my password is really MIA!!

-Placed an ad in The Ventura County Star classifieds to advertise my moving sale; it will run this weekend and the sale weekend: Jan. 3/4, 2009.

-Got more large packing boxes from U-Haul since I ran out of them packing so far.

-Contacted E.J. Harrison to schedule a dumpster Jan. 9 in front of my house for a week to unload all of my shit and leftovers by then.

-Saw my allergist to get prescription of allergy meds before I leave. I will not mention the cost to fill it; another expense to move out of this country...

The cats are enjoying the mountain of boxes.

I am glad they are enjoying this while I lay sore and stiff in bed after packing/moving boxes. Meanwhile the dust is kicking up from the stuff so my allergies are going crazy.

Things to pack before or after the moving sale:
-The whole kitchen including 3 sets of dishware, 2 sets of cookware and sort through food items to spare tupperware for sale, possibly shipping with me. Will pack leftovers from sale for charities.

-Garage items; fortunately things are still in boxes but there is a rubbermaid garbage can full of sewing fabrics and scraps to sort through. I may shift my yarn stash into this can instead of the separate bins (another task to take care of)

Things yet to do:
-Figure a price to sell my Accord
-Cancel my credit card and utilities (Jan. 10)
-Scan my diplomas and passport (when I get it back) for Australia office and immigration
-Contact AAA in Florida to set up an insurance policy for Scooter while my parents have it on their driveway. (Florida visit)
-Cancel my car insurance when I sell the Honda
-Check to see if my mail can be forwarded to Melbourne
-Contact Tag Gilbert for rental arrangements (Jan. 5)
-Contact Pete for shipping arrangements (awaiting airfare arrangements)
-Order a Western School course to continue my 30 CEU's for RN licensure (receive before I leave)
-Contact more charities to pick up my leftover/rejected furniture
-Pick up car transfer of ownership papers for both cars from safety deposit (12/23)

More to come....my rare moment of zhen

Items that Must Vacate this House

2008-12-19T09:28:00.000-08:00

Preita has queued me in my last post that people may not know what I need to eliminate. Well, here it is; if you want to really see them in person contact me:

Set of cookware x2, dishware, tupperware, any ware in the kitchen including a coffee pot and microwave. 'Lustre Craft' and 'The Pampered Chef' sets. Look online if you are not familiar with these.

Living room furniture: 3-seat couch, chair, entertainment center, TV's x2, DVD/VCR, full stereo set with speakers. Couch is paprika in color with accent pillow, the single seated chair has the accent material of the couch pillows. Entertainment center has 2 glass closure curio cabinets that have small lights to turn on. Light wood...small storage cabinetry where the cats keep opening the doors to go into their "lyre".

Lamps including expenseive ones made from musical instruments (flute and clarinet)

Bedroom set: 2 nightstands, headboard for full-size and queen bed, dresser with mirror

Rocking Chair - maple wood

Desk with Hutch: 5 feet long, 26 inches wide and ~ 6 feet tall. Hutch is separate piece on top of desk but stabilizes with stuff in the side cabinets and shelving.

CD Storage cabinet with window/door closure; same height and wood as Desk. It has an electrical connection to turn on a little light in the open display area.

Triangular shelf unit to compliment the CD Storage cabinet on one side (same height).

Wall hangings: Paintings x2 by Dan Wuthrick with certificate of authenticity

2 small floor rugs and one floor runner.

Open bookshelf about 3 feet high and 3 level-shelves. This was hand-made from a boyfriend long time ago. I have used it for a nightstand and holding my various display items.

2 sets of patio furniture; both wtih 4 chairs. One of the tables is a round glass with rust-proof framing.

There are lots of other toys and trinkets that I have yet to go through so I might as well just give this shit away to a Thrift store or just throw it all away.

The Heat is Turning up

2008-12-18T16:41:00.000-08:00

Me again....a day after my kitties' vaccinations where they have been lethargic all night and didn't wake me up this morning - what a shock! They still seem to be recovering from the stuff. They have difficulties jumping up places they normally have been. Wait until I have to do a trial sedation dosing Monday before I travel to Florida.

Made arrangements to have my Miata (Scooter) picked up and shipped to my parents home in Florida. Hopefully it will make it there when I am still visiting with them. Went out for a leisure drive up Casitas Canyon roads with Scooter; one of my last drives in "my baby". Bought the new faucet for the bum bathroom to be replaced by my plummer Jeremy tomorrow.

Sat in on a conference call with my future Australian colleagues to find out what I need to cover while the person who is sort of covering is going on holiday for 4 weeks. Called the International VISA place for my African safari trip because I realized that I sent it to the wrong place! Soooo my passport is MIA!! I cannot state when I will be going to Australia - that was not intentional, just hasty on getting a required process going and big mistake. Austalia will have to wait for me....still needing to pack up my belongings. At this point I will have to give all my stuff away since nobody has called to come by and peruse through my place. Hey it's Christmas...why the hell would anyone want used shit anyway - who has money? Stephany has volunteered to help me go through my stuff on Saturday to get started - motivation is what I need right now to sort through my life here.

Oh then there is my current client work....Bakersfield client doesn't know I am leaving this project and will be extremely mad according to my project executive. It's nice to know that I bring value in my work but it's time for the challenging adventure overseas! I prepared a presentation for the project and set up the conference call with them for tomorrow - snap!! I get the feeling it will not be this easy in Australia with the different culture and terminologies.

Spoke to my cousin Tom now that he knows my news of moving overseas. He will start trucking school Monday to get his CDL for driving. Hopefully he will get employed soon - hard times in American economy.

More tomorrow and weekend to come:
-Must get new boxes to start the packing process
-Sort through papers and memorabilia to store in Scooter shipping to Florida
-Figure out price for selling Honda Accord
-Call PVS International to see if they received my fax to retrieve my passport in the Tanzanian Embassy (Washington, DC)
-Possibly purchase Nursing CEU course for CA RN license renewal: something I have to accomplish during my sabbatical month

The list is getting shorter but the time to execute any real move items is tremendously overwhelming!

History and Premonition Dreams

2008-12-17T18:58:00.000-08:00

Today's activity to move overseas was slow...got the estimate from a moving company to ship things: Miata to Florida and my belongings to Australia. Otherwise, I am waiting to better understand one more detail of my job offer before I really sign anything. I did manage to contact my plummber to schedule the bum bathroom faucet for Friday. Today was a bit emotional - I brought my kitties in one more time to the Vet for their vaccinations and sedation for the trip to Florida. The Vet said they are overweight - they eat like their mommy. They do sleep all day now that it has been raining. $400+ later...I have Revolution doses (Florida prevention for worms), sedation and pill pockets home with me for the transport.

One of my correspondes in email was from Jane Brown. She facilitates young adoptee playshops to help them understand their adoption from birth family to adoptee families. I volunteered a couple times with her in Los Angeles. I call the young adoptees "mini-me's". If you go on google and search for jane Brown playshop...she shows up everywhere:)

Jane informed me that one of the adoptees, Jan Lyon, that I hung around with a lot a few years ago is not in a skilled nursing home from a massive stroke. She found out from someone else Christmas last year. Since I do have premonition dreams of people I can identify them in, I bet the stroke happened at that time of my dream.

Reflective on how I tried to tell Jan to let things go in life because the stress is not worth it...she held a horrific grudge with another adoptee 4 years before this time (now 5 years) where she made me a villain for not supporting her stance. I know when to stay out of other's conflicts - as I posted then I am on a mission to take care of myself; nobody else will at this time.

Overseas Preparation - Day 2

2008-12-16T11:29:00.000-08:00

-United Air has reservation updates for my 2 kitties to fly to Florida
-Marriott points secured for Jane Thornley workshop first weekend in March 2009
-Scheduled vet appt to receive vaccines and flight sedation for kitties
-Paid and sent my VISA applicaiton with passport photos to Embassy of Tanzania
-Paid remaining amount for my African safari trip
-Spoke to Australian people in Melbourne office on logistics; don't have definate date of arrival with all things to take care of here (negotiations still in progress)
-Spoke with my tax man informing me of taxing tips while overseas
-Scheduling my plummer to replace my bum bathroom faucet
-Visiting my allergist later today for any allergy considerations overseas

Still haven't gone through my stuff to determine what ships with me and what will be sold/given away. :( Hard to get motivated when both US and Australia wants my time. US client doesn't have my replacement yet and Australia wants me to get caught up on things to cover after the New Years! It's nice to be needed.

Is anyone really reading this?

As the Stomach Turns - Day 1 of Items

2008-12-15T12:04:00.000-08:00

So far here is what I have accomplished:

-Sent out House purge sale - ALL HOUSE WARES MUST GO message to peeps I know
-Contacted my US tax guy to help me on the rental situation and income exclusion while I work abroad
-Scheduled Cat clinic vaccines and sedation for this week
-Recevied call back from movers about international arrangmements
-Preparing items for International VISA for African safari trip
-Transferred funds to pay for African trip by 12/16
-Contacted my plummer to schedule faucet replacment in my bum bathroom
-Calling Fairfield Inn to confirm all of my room reservations with my Marriott points for Jane Thornley workshop first weekend of March 2009

Here is what I need to accomplish by today:

-Contact United Air to give me requirements and fees to transport my cats to Florida
-Contact the rental agency I spoke to earlier last week to confirm this is a done deal to start looking for renters

That's just for today...more to come. And then there is my work that I need to finish up by end of this week as well. I need a personal secretary!

Frank's Visit

2008-12-13T19:07:00.000-08:00

I have to admit that Frank (Felix Unger) was not OCD this past weekend visiting me. He actually played with my cats! The only complaint he had was the small shower area in one of my antiquated bathrooms.

Here he is on the Pismo beach pier

Exposed him the best Clam Chowder at Splash Cafe, then we saw pelicans on the pier.

Here is one that is getting fish guts from a guy fileting a fish

We proceeded to go to Cold Spring Tavern, the historical location of stage coach stops. Frank enjoyed the historical site but that day there were no bikers as they would usually hang out there.

We had lunch at the Cold Spring the tavern itself; manager slipping out of the place. Mug shots of us waiting for our food inside.

We ended up going into Solvang because I wanted him to see the Dutch architecture and stop off for the pastry. He didn't refuse. He enjoyed the California countryside after all instead of the Los Angeles Hollywood crap. Hurray for Felix!

Btw, he helped me through the decision of taking the offer in Australia for work. He wants to go down there and work as well so we definately will be keeping in touch with each other. He has offered for me to call him to talk about the move anytime. So everyone - now you know: I am moving to Australia for work sometime next month! It's time for me to really get busy in my life. There may not be postings here for some time.

How do I Love to Spend Money - Let me Count the Ways

2008-12-01T15:51:00.000-08:00

Today was the start of my sewer line investigation. Plummers are digging up the front of my yard to see how the sewage is draining. A camera was probed a couple weeks ago and couldn't see something after a certain point. Found out why...there is a clay juncture of pipe heading into the large Indian Laurel tree/sidewalk of my yard and it is installed higher than the main drainage coming from the house. No wonder I tend to see water not drain as quickly - reverse gravity. Having this problem around a large tree with penetrating roots, well I have no sympathy for such a healthy tree. I told the guy that if you accidentally kill the tree, I would not be disappointed - think it can happen? Not in this lifetime.
They have to saw through many thick roots around the piping to get what they see. So we have to wait until tomorrow for another camera view and possibly digging further up toward my house to see how the piping looks and possibly dig that section deeper for the downflow drainage - chaching! More money to spend!!

Well before this trauma of my home ownership woes, I did manage to visit Wildfiber in Santa Monica Saturday for their big 30-50% off on yarn sale. Got myself another boatload of expensive yarn for my stash. I came up to the register and told her, "I am working on blowing my house payment every time I come here". The owner didn't care but the customer behind totally agreed on my comment.
The shiny hanks of yarn with red tags are 100% bamboo and it's like knitting with silk - love it! Making the Romantic Lace shawl with the Scarlett color.

Oh yes, can't forget my trip to Loop & Leaf where I picked up a special ordered Sea Wool Blue Lagoon to match the one I bought before...well, the color was completely darker but I got the skein anyway for a scarf/shawl project. The original skein I started with the Coin Lace Scarf - a pattern I have been waiting for a long time from the designer Shui Kuen Kozinski.
Definately blocking is in order for both of these projects with the stiff fiber contents.

Meanwhile I got surprising news from my friend Frank the handsome Italian friend (Felix Unger). He is flying out to visit me this weekend! I can't believe he is actually wanting to stay here for a weekend. I guess he misses me ;) I suppose it's as weird as having this double-headed bloom out of a single stalk of this bird of paradise.

Heading to more Holidays

2008-11-21T08:55:00.000-08:00

Last week I flew to Reno to help on a system conversion. I did manage to finish a lacey scarf on the plane ride over.

Well do you think I would have the opportunity to finish some of my knitting projects? No, instead went back to my other habit which knitting replaced: Blackjack. Hey - I was hot! For the 5 days there I won > $200; I consider that 2 knitting projects paid for :) Oh yeah....the system conversion was smooth and I felt like I helped out.

Came home and finished another project finally - I am distracted by many projects staying home since August.

I did have help keeping the pieces together while I sewed them...

Earlier I had a visitor and he/she actually came into my house and left poop pellets.

Both Freckles and Ditto were fine with this creature around, in fact it is larger than Ditto so they really couldn't do anything to scare it away. They were scared of this creature and the nerve of it coming into my house!

Meanwhile I received 3 offers to join Thanksgiving. I forgot I had one in August so blew that one off so I accepted another in Valencia. Had a 3rd offer in Fresno with more unfamiliar surroundings. I think I am ok with the choice this year. It will give me a chance to see Katy Gentry sober from Heroine addiction; last year's Thanksgiving dilema. (Thanksgiving 2007 with the cousins group - MacDonalds and Gentrys)

Rare Dinner Party

2008-11-12T09:25:00.001-08:00

Last Saturday I hosted a dinner party at my house; which is rare for me to cook! There were 10 of us that were in my house that evening where I made chicken and beef enchaladas. For some reason I was suffering from a migraine Thursday and Friday so I was in bed most of those days preventing me from cleaning the place in stages for this event. Saturday morning, was fine and performed the Cinderella duties all morning, chopped and prepared the food all afternoon, showered and dressed ready in time for the first guest to arrive at 5 PM sharp! Exhaustion set in so I was not in the mood for knitting with the others that brought theirs. To my surprise, Beatriz brought not only Mexican rice but Chicken Mole and Chile Verde. A success for the dinner as we hung out, chatted then ate the wonderful apple pie that Lisa baked for us...yummy! I didn't take photos of the food but of the people who made my evening worth while.

Gloria and Flo

Stephanie, Beatriz and Candace

Lisa and Nancy Vargas

Preita who claims she needs chest scaffolding that night

....and Terry the miracle knitter

Thank you ladies for coming over :)

Monthly Update

2008-11-12T08:53:00.000-08:00

It has been a month and realized I haven't posted anything here. Wow! Here is the latest...

Went on a couple lunch dates with Mark, the guy who only wants to date one woman at a time. I convinced him to meet me since meeting is not 'dating'. I am not sure if he is seeing/dating the other woman but I didn't ask. We are currently exchanging email and texting but nothing chemistry or combustion is happening. He has his life together but he seems not as confident in public as I thought he was. He waits for me to get out of my car before he goes into a restaurant. Usually people go into the place and wait for each other. The second lunch, I was waiting for him with a glass a wine. 10 minutes delinquent of our scheduled time, I went outside the place and then he came out of his vehicle. WTF!? I asked him why didn't he go into the place... no sigificant answer that made sense. I am not sure if I should be honored that he evolves his world around the appearance of someone or that I should move on to someone more confident. I think the latter is my choice.

Being home every day has made me too comfortable. Letting the girls out in the backyard with the beautiful butterflys has made Freckles a hunter. She killed this marvelous monarch right in front of the terracing.

Ended up knitting a couple hats: first one was a catalyst to make for a little girl's birthday present for the end of this month. I made it in one day and asked for the mailing address to send to her mother (who requested I make this). I believe her mother is avoiding the payment that she agreed to surrender...she has not contacted me back with a mailing address nor a time to pick the hat up. I plan on using this hat myself. Note to self: no more exchanges with this person who cannot follow through on commited requests. I am not a slave!! Here is the wooly hat.

Meanwhile..I have been spending waaay too much time at my LYS. But I am helping to sell a certain type/brand of yarn with my fininshed shawl projects :)

My friend Nina went in for a right mastectomy on October 30 and had an uneventful procedure. The easiest part is over..now comes the recovery: psychological and reconstruction stages. I am hoping she will follow her post-op education. That evening I found out that my best friend, Camille is learning how to knit. She brought in her practice swatch and was knitting. I didn't believe it was hers but she was actually making knit stitches! I am proud of her.

Made a hat for myself in one evening. I am now into making socks again; toe-up method. Before it was cuff down finishing toe so this is a challenge to make them in reverse.

As you can see...I need to get back to traveling on the road for work. They have not given me a true start date for my next anticipated assignemt in Bakersfield. There is really no work her in the West coast but they don't want to send me to another region like I was for Detroit > 2 years. Got my sabbatical approved and going on an African safari March 2009! Can't wait to be with wildlife again!! Until then, I will have to enjoy the wildlife in my own yard. Check out the hummingbird I caught picking at my bird of paradise.

Then there is this beautiful butterfly - check out the terrific markings!

Then there is the indoor wildlife: Freckles watching her prey/gift that she gives me daily for attention.

Life Spinning Around Me

2008-10-10T00:24:00.001-07:00

Ok..so I signed up for yet another singles dating online thinking I will have some luck somehow with the male species. I think I was prompted since I joined Facebook. There are commercial ads such as > 40 singles, blah blah blah. Signed up but I will not pay for the monthly fees to email the bastards :P
I snagged a really cool guy last week and I acutally received a response back in my personal email! I swear - I am mystified on why men do not want to take the plunge to correspond with me when I open my self to contact me in email, etc. Mark, a single father/widower contacted me in email and it was terrific. Until I gave him my land phone, he tried to text message me to meet him for a drink last Friday night. Come to realize it was my land phone. Meanwhile, he received a text message from another lady asking him to meet for drinks. I know all this since I did queue him to call me after that past weekend to connect in person. He is a genuinly terrific guy, gregareous and positive for what he has been through - truly a winner. He did confess that he does not date many women at once so I missed out on my opportunity when he went out with the other lady for a drink instead of me. I am wondering how men think that one date makes him homogenous in the dating scene. Anyway...he said that he wants to date this women and see what happens but wants to keep in touch with me anyway. We did speak for 90 minutes with the circumstances as such. I am not sure if I am impressed or disappointed. I believe he is a people pleaser and I did miss out for not giving him my cell number to be text messaged. Mark states that things happen for a reason. Thinking about this, he states that I wasn't meant to meet him and it was a better deal for the woman who asked him instead. I missed out again - timing is and always has been bad for me when it comes to these relationships! This is the story of my life so I must be waiting for the Cinderella story to climax.

Still working from home this week waiting for a full-time project to start; next week I travel to Winona, MN - great time of the year to be there. I can wear my sweaters that I knitted finally over there. Since I am unable to solve the puzzle of obtaining a mate, I continue to enjoy the beauty around me as much as possible. My bird of paradise plants are blooming like crazy this year. Check out the spider on this one trying to get the sticky sap.

Hummingbirds do fly around these blooms but by the time I get my camera out, they are gone.

Here is Freckles with her typical provacative pose when she rests, yes - she is showing a nipple (click on the photo for close-up).

Happy Birthday to Me!

2008-09-30T12:50:00.000-07:00

During my wonderful birthday celebration I didn't realize that yet again someone got a hold of my corp credit account (Diners MasterCard) and shopped accordingly:

Sep-20-2008 ROSS STORES #125 SAN FRANCISCO CA $ 176.72
Sep-20-2008 NORDSTROM #0427 Q18 SAN FRANCISCO CA $ 250.00
Sep-22-2008 RADIOSHACK COR00138552 SANTA ROSA CA $ 410.39
Sep-22-2008 SAFEWAY STORE00015628 SANTA ROSA CA $ 200.00
Sep-22-2008 SAFEWAY STORE00015628 SANTA ROSA CA $ 209.18

I traced it back from a phone call I made to a seedy Indian restaurant; they overcharged my card for a meal I had there the weekend before. That was my going away present for being up there one more time for the client. "Tandoor" restaurant charged me for the base and then again including my tip on the charge slip - those bastards!! I called them 9/12/08 and referred to the invoice # transaction and whalah! Fraudulent charges. No wonder our economy is the way it is. Diners closed the card, my work is aware of this event for the second time on their corporate card!!!

On a lighter note, I completely enjoyed my past weekend Knitting Retreat away with the knitting ladies of Ventura County (and one from Huntington Beach). We rented a huge house for the weekend (back in April) for this wonderful gathering. I wanted to be in a sleeping room where nobody snores since I am very light sleeper. Ended up in a room with 2 other twin beds. One night the latest person to join the group woke me up snoring, the second my other roomate. Both claim they didn't know they snore...LOL Anyway my feedback after the 2nd night is that if we were there a third night, I would be the one snoring. So instead of calling it the "no snoring room"; I call it the "part-time snoring room".

2 acronyms for knitting:
SABLE
Stash Accumulation Beyond Life Expectancy

SEX
Stash Enhancement eXpedition

Both very much in my real of this knitting addiction. I proceeded to buy even more yarn: Noro Blossom in Cambria. This is discontinued yarn that I thought I would never see any more of. So what do I do? Scoop! We enjoyed the different knitting skills that was brought to the table as we shared different techniques/idea, etc. The enthusiasm is great that we will get together again same time next year. Since Stephanie doesn't want to facilitate it again I volunteered for this undertaking next year.

Will Work for Quilts

2008-09-19T11:09:00.000-07:00

Look what Flo has made me! How beautiful is this? This was the loving return of making the Blossom pullover top for her. I owe her big time. As you can see, I am not the only fan of this warm quilt. Ditto posing in this photo.

Freckles on the opposite corner. They both were originally laying close together until I had to get up and get the camera for the rare moment. All 3 of us love the quilt! Thanks Flo!

Knitting UFO with a Bonus

2008-09-15T15:54:00.001-07:00

Work hiatus has allowed me to focus on my knitting mojo; not that I am asking to do nothing for work. Finished my Cherry Blossom pullover that took me 5 months to finish. Looks better on someone than on this hanger.

Meanwhile I knitted another Clapotis shawl wrap that is a perfect color match for the Cherry Blossom.

Just because I finished the Clapotis in less than 2 weeks, I rewarded myself by starting another "Champagne Leaf & Acorn" wrap with the same rayon yarn as the Clapotis. I am still working 4 project simultanesouly - will I ever learn to finish one at a time? No Way!

For the shawl wraps I am thinking of selling them in a local boutique specialty store in town. If one place doesn't like the idea of selling hand knitted items, then there are other means of marketing them.

Another Summer - Another Turning of the Page

2008-09-04T07:27:00.000-07:00

It's been a while since I posted here as I have been through a hiatus of "psychological realignment". I realized that I have been trying too hard to win over others that are truly out of my league; at the same time I am trying to keep others that are trying too hard to win me at arms length. Strange balancing act. No wonder I love animals, they are much easier to be around and there is always the unconditional love that is predictable. I do know who my friends are and I have to admit that I am not a social butterfly yet an event organizer with friends.

Been distracted in knitting in the summer with this hiatus but now I am back into working 3-4 projects simultaneously. I decided that I am going for apparel where I can try selling them in local boutiques. You think, who would pay that much money for hand knitted items when the yarn is already expensive? Well, I will try to give it a shot based on my favorite items: cables and shawls. Sock knitting was fun while working with size 0 needles but I need to get back to items that will be marketable. Socks are more of a personal item; like underwear :)

I saw "A Chorus Line" this past weekend with my friend Camille in Orange County - nice production but the orchestra was over bearing at times for the performers' solo singing. I also had lunch with Flo, Nancie, Terry and Preita at the new location of Brophy Brothers in Ventura Harbor.

The weekeend before that I ran into Beatriz at Cold Spring Tavern. What a cool historical place in a Santa Barbara canyon. It's a great place for people wathcing with all the bikers; both motorcycle and cyclists.

Hey - kinda boring but who is really reading this for fun anyway? ;)

"Felix Unger" Photos

2008-07-25T17:39:00.000-07:00

Finally got around to uploading pics from my vacation...here are photos of Frank. What a handsome guy but a real piece of work!

Note his kitchen counter is immaculate - there was only one spot that had clutter of something not shown here.

Finally got him to smile nicely.

I guess I wore out my welcome

Picture Posting

2008-07-25T17:02:00.001-07:00

Ok...so I haven't been keeping up with logging my thoughts, trials and tribulations here lately. So I thought I take the opportunity to upload a few photos. The Summer Solstice party in particular.

Before you view the photos - I want to say that I have truly enjoyed my
work week at home instead of on the road. I have no kids and not married but I am fortunately lucky and unfortunate depending on perspective. Am getting a bit tired of the road warrior lifestyle but this pays the bills.

Tuesday I met up with a hand-full of knittsters a the Coffee Bean closer to me! How convenient! I gave up a date with a guy that evening knowing that I planned to be there. Discovered my sensitivity of how Becky harps on me with my personality especially with men around. I think I communicated my background for her to understand. I know there are things that people say or do that I don't understand as well - we are all different.

Wednesday - stayed home and enjoyed my kitties; they are getting spoiled on my presence here this week.

Thursday - I meant to originally go to knit night but the date that I witheld on Tuesday evening I took on :) His name is Charles or Chuck. We met since he is a shuttle driver for Roadrunner. He is older than me and oversees million dollar home rennovations in the ritzy area of Camarillo. Went to Happy Hour at California Grill and met a very personable man named "CC" I asked what those initials mean; he said "Cup Cake". All three of us had a great conversation on race, region and politics with the up and coming election. CC was distracted by young blond females that cracked me up!

Friday - exhausted and awaiting the big day to go to Loop & Leaf tomorrow!!! Lisa, Flo and Prieta are joining me on this road trip to the fabulous fibers.

Here are photos from Nancie's Summer Solstice party - I looked terrible so no photos of me here:

Recap of Vacation

2008-06-16T21:34:00.001-07:00

Florida 2008:
Told my father about his Scimeca side of the family; that I am in touch with his nephews. I told him that they are responsible parents so things are working out well for them regardless of the relationship with his brother. I told him when my mother was not in earshot. He was ok with it after all!

Went to Epcot Center and Bush Gardens with my parents. My mother almost had a heat stroke at Bush since we were mostly outside and getting dehydrated from the heat. Otherwise, I enjoyed the quiet environment for my knitting and didn't take my laptop from work with me. I made my father a pair of socks (photo will be on Ravelry shortly) for Father's day. He loved them so I am working on monm's pair now.

Had dinner with my work colleague Frank. He makes great Italian sauce with sausages with casing. I bought him a bouquet of flowers before I arrived at his house; he insisted he is not gay. I said, "I know, put them in water!" He claimed he didn't have a container but he eventually found a biscotti ceramic jar and the flowers looked great on the table. Yes, I know he's not gay but it was as though I was in the house of Felix Unger of the Odd Couple. Holy shit if I didn't put the fucking lid down on the toilet after MY visit to the bathroom. No clutter, everything in it's place and prestine. He said his mother helped him with the interior decor which included nice draping and color combinations. He says he likes the color purple - the guest room. It's all about him in his surroundings. Had a great dinner, great minimal conversation while I was there but in the end it is all smoke and mirrors afterwards. He would rather be by himself because of himself. I must erase the memories!! I took a great photo of him over the stove, I forgot to take a photo of my flowers and now I am regretting that mistake. So much for my distraction of a potential relationship - WTF!!

Back to work and still not enjoying my time without the knit sisters. :(

Bad Travel Karma

2008-06-10T20:05:00.000-07:00

Returning from Florida yesterday, my traveling bad karma begins. First, I left my parent's home 4 hours too soon. I stayed in the Orlando airport knitting one of my mother's sock as I waited for my flight going through Memphis and continuing to LAX via Northwest. A hyperactive mother was walking around with her also hyperactive toddler until the little girl tripped and fell forward splitting her bottom lip open. Needless to say, the mother is frantic, baby girl screaming because mother is screaming "Where is a first aid around here?". This being at the gate. There was unit of emergency workers arriving once they got through security only to give the baby tylenol. I said "give her some ice to numb the lip and stop the bleeding". I also said, "that mother needs to calm down to the baby can stop crying. Baby senses the frenzy so the baby cannot calm down." A mother of 2 school age kids jumped up and became the heroine with these actions and told the mother to calm down. I guess I was too lazy to jump out of my chair with knitting at hand. I was enjoying the drama. There was a guy who claimed to be a doctor where the frantic mother seemed to not stop talking to him for advice. The guy gladly gave her the medical advice she needed. Obviously, this is a mother of only one child and she was traveling by herself - no wonder she was frantic!

Once we started boarding the plane, I missed my call to board for First Class passengers so I made it in before the steerage came on board ;) Unfortunately, the crew made us continuing passengers get off the aircraft in Memphis. I didn't want to deplane since it is a complete burden of having to board again. I made the mistake of pushing my way through the crowd at the gate to reboard since I though they called First Class and missing it again. I pushed myself in front of other First Class passengers where 2 of them made a stink of my movement. I had no lunch so I was cranky in addition to following deplaning activities I didn't want to go through. The other disgruntled passenger gave me a nasty dirty look as she was trying to get in the seat next to me. She dropped her shit down in the aisle and said her seat assignment looking at me with disgust. I said, "ok, I can stand up"...as I was waitin for her to move her shit out of the way. She made a comment of how rude I was pushing my way through the crowd when they were all waiting a long time. I said I was apologizing, she said I wasn't...can you guess how this day is going? During the 4 1/2 flight, I insisted the flight attendant to serve me last on everything! I was not the last row but I made sure people in plain view sees that I am not pushing my way in to be rude. I even was the last one out of First Class deplaning in LAX because I didn't want to appear pushy and rude.

Today getting back to work, my United flight was cancelled. I tried to work from home this week. Manager of the project says Kaiser is a big client and they want people on site no matter what it takes or costs. Ok...so off I drive from Ventura to LAX 70+ mileage...chaChing! Realized at LAX that I didn't pack a complete knitting project: 2 sets of sock project and either yarn is missing or a 5th DP needle not in my bag - Phuey!! Parked in Lot C of LAX...chaChing! Get on Southwest air which surprising didn't have any long lines - truly shocking! Got into Oakland - they lost my fucking luggage!!! Get to Avis counter, they didn't have my name/car ready for me as a Preferred traveler. But getting my own rental car this week is a cost that the client wants me to be here on site for the work....chaChing!! So far, they are getting what they want. Meanwhile, my client site has not given me anything to fucking work on since I finally arrived in the office at 3 PM. Not that I am complaining of nothing to do but that was a shit to go through for absolutely nothing. This is the Murphy's Law of traveling experiences.

Getting to the hotel, they didn't find the right phone charger that I left here before I left for vacation - living with a dead phone...chaChing goes the phone calls on the hotel. So....I am writing this now still waiting for my whereabouts of my luggage. I do not plan on going into the office tomorrow AM if I do not have luggage/change of clothes. Unfortunately, they usually deliver luggage at 1 AM so they make us stay up all night for this delivery to the hotel. Those who travel know all about this annoyance.

Am I having a good time back from vacation? Fuck no!

When things come back down to normal I do plan on posting my pictures from Florida. There is a rainbow at the end of the madness. For a preview, I did happen to mention my Scimeca contact to my father. He was ok with it - I said it to him without mother around; that's what makes a difference with couples.

Scimeca.....knocked out for now!

Parental Unit Visitation

2008-06-02T16:56:00.000-07:00

Off to visit the parents in Florida this evening. Can't wait to tell my father about my contact with his nephew with the long-term Italian estrangement between he and his brother. Yes, I decided to disclose this information and I realize I have a haven to go to in Florida in case my mother wants to use a butcher knife on me.

Here today, gone tomorrow - not much of a difference for me anyway. Can't hurt by asking or telling at this stage of life. Don't want to leave out any missing pieces. This is my decade of closure for EVERYONE in my life. :)

I have lots of sock yarn to work with this trip; and the rest of my baby bamboo to finish my Blossom pullover. I updated my Ravelry site with my current projects and near finished projects so I am ready for the time off!

Will post an update on my dinner with the Mambo Italiano when I wipe off the humidity and sweat; from the weather!

Trauma from Ransom Conditions

2008-05-27T15:01:00.000-07:00

On 5/15/08 I received a ransom notice from the vigilante - Becky. Apparently I am not a good parent and abandoned Basil, my mini guinea finger puppet on 5/10. Apparently I left him at the AFY table with Frances, his play date friend but I completely forgot to pick him up after my first sock knittig class that day! Didn't realize I left him until I returned to the shop on 5/16 - wow no wonder I never had children!!

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When I finally got him home, he was reunited with his sister Ditto.

However when I left the room after the happy reunion (and not looking), I found Basil upside down on the floor off the couch. Vigilantes all around me!

Soft Velvet to Rock Hard

2008-04-05T23:20:00.001-07:00

Health update: My allergist says I don't need another round of allergy shots! Hurray. Just need to keep to my Cinderella duties and groom the cats regularly. My allergies are more subdued than we both thought from my bronchitis attack earlier this week. The Nebulizer machine finally arrived at my home and the treatment does help my breathing. If you recall a scene from the movie "Blue Velvet", Dennis Hopper was breathing through a mask in his intense scene; that is what it looks like when taking one of those nebulizer treatments.

Here is what you all missed on our Poppy field visit. My friend Camille drove up from OC the night before so we can meet up with Nancie before we hit the high desert Poppy Reserve. Unfortunately, we missed Sandy and Preita joining us today. Sandy wasn't feeling well still and Preita had a job committment. I can relate to both instances so there will be another poppy run later this month or early in May.

It was very windy so we felt like sails trying to walk through the trails of the reserve. But the beautiful velvety petals of the sprinkled poppies made it worth the trip. There was an interpretive center where we had a momentary shelter from the winds to view artists impressions of the California wildflowers. They had a natural habitat exhibit of the wildlife and a short film of the environment's beauty.

Once we had enough sand and wind blowing through our sinuses, we proceeded to drive back via route 14. I exited Aqua Dulce to visit the Vasquez Rocks park. They film a lot in this park; you may recognize some scenes from the old Star Trek episodes when you drive through the place.

If you look closely, you can see the people at the very top tip of this rock formation that looks like a shipwreck.

These rock formations are absolutely surreal standing upward from the ground!

We could have used a shelter like this in the poppy field.

Reptile Sitings & Succulents

2008-04-03T23:19:00.000-07:00

Ok...I forgot to include the 2 lizards from our hike last Sunday. Beautiful red spots on this one

Then there was this handsome one with green spots. I think he was checking me out while taking the photo.

I am always facinated by the wall of succulents. Chalk Live-Forevers growing in this one wall - love the rosette formations.

Another Walk in the Park

2008-04-03T12:44:00.000-07:00

Being on a home vacation has certainly made me conscious of many things:
1. I am allergic to cats, dogs, horses 4+++ to the point of near status asthmaticus in my home yesterday after wiping down and vacuuming everything possible that would have flying cat dander. I will NOT give up my girls! I have to sacrifice my life to Cinderella-hood to keep my environment clean as possible. This includes a weekly grooming of the cat dander and house cleaning :(
Otherwise, I am living with a companion now called the nebulize machine. One step toward a respirator (ventilator) if I am hospitalized for any chest trauma or cardiac surgery. This is a result of my childhood viral pneumonia - my respiratory immunities are shot!

2. Because of resurfaced allergies, I am destined to go for another round of allergy testing and therapy with my allergist who scolded me for getting cats in my house again. The idea of purchasing the 'Grand Feline Hotel' business (cat kennel in Ojai) is out of the question if I have to maintain the environment of 2 cats. Being around up to 40 will kill me.

3. I updated my ravelry account with the photos of finished projects; a bit delinquent in that area. Being bedridden for #1 above has helped me advance on the Charlotte's Web and Clapotis shawls. Not that I am asking for this situation at all.

Before my big asthma event, I hiked with Lisa, Beck and Terry last Sunday capturing cool pictures of nature.
From the book of "Flowering Plants" this blossom is on the Mexcian Elderberry bush. The fruit is a blueberry eaten by Indians. They made a soothing tea from the dry blossoms for fevers and spread it on sprains and itches.

Wild Cucumber: trailing vine from a huge fleshy root with long stalked leaves.The bright green fruit has several 'handsome' seeds inside. California Indians made necklaces out of those seeds.

Hummingbord Sage:

Fuschia-Flowered Gooseberry (couldn't get as close for a good picture)

If anyone knows what flowering plant this is, please let me know while I persuse through the book. I love the bright red coloring!

Coming back from the hike the sunlight was just right filtering through the trees onto the ground ferns.

Out of Site - Out of Mind

2008-03-04T17:05:00.000-08:00

The drudge of being away from home.....

Being away on the road brings me back to the "wish my company will contact me for the Australian gig". Being away from home makes me miss people and I am not sure how I am to communicate with folks via cyberspace, it sucks. I guess being out of site doesn't warrant folks to respond as easily than if I was there.....hmm must have been something I did, said or didn't do or say.

Visiting with my cousin last weekend was nice. Driving back from Chicago to Detroit made me realize that I know I can't keep up with these folks as much as I want to if I don't live there as well. So my nomadic lifestyle is really making me realize how I look forward to retirement. Last week I checked on how my girls are doing in the feline hotel; they are doing better. I would love to work in such a job that has cats around me all day. Yarn store or cat kennel/hotel? What a decision.

Memories of My Youth

2008-03-01T13:59:00.000-08:00

I did it to myself today. Since I am imprisoned in Detroit metro this weekend, I planned to drive to Chicago metro to visit my cousin Tom. I missed out the last time I stayed a weekend in the Great Lakes December since this fucking weather took me down for the flu all that weekend. Now I am healthy to take the drive.

On the way I took a detour off I-94 to Sister Lakes, MI. What a time to forget my camera!! Dewey Lake (one of the Sister Lakes) was the lake that my parents had a summer cottage when I was growing up. Every summer that was my home on Huckleberry Lane - Dewey Lake. This is a natural lake where I remember picking out clams, snails and tadpoles. I was a tomboy!! No girly-girl would ever touch those slimy things. I managed to find the patience to fish with my father in that lake and caught crappies (pronounced 'croppies') and wide-mouth sea bass with worms on hooks and fake minnow lures. Many summers I spent there just looking out at the lake at dusk and many mornings I woke up to the glass top of the lake without any ripples yet. We had a ski boat; learned how to water ski there and also lost my innocence there as well. Wow - I miss those times.

The detour was a challenge since it was > 30 years ago when I was last there; couldn't remember all the turns. I had to stop off at a gas station to ask how to get to that lake so I can remember the lot where we lived for the summer. Finally found it! More houses built around the cul-de-sac, and the homes there have second stories. They weren't like that when I was there as a little girl. My have things changed. Even the cottage that we lived in the summer no longer exists. There is a different structure there and the old weeping willow tree in the front yard that had a tire swing is gone. At least the existing house is as small as the cottage we had on that lot. Owners name "Chalpoukpa's" on the sign above the entry of the door. The next door neighbor's structure added a second floor yet the 3-unit rental on the other side was the same; just different painted colors. I was compelled to run through the snow out to the lakefront. The lake is frozen over, I saw a guy out in the middle ice fishing. Otherwise the memories of watching the water day and evening came back even with the snow and frozen lake in front of me - it was bright and sunny out. Then all of a sudden the memory was ruined by a father and son taking out their ATV's onto the lake. So much for the peace and quiet. Driving back out of this area made me realize that the road back when I was young was much longer to walk than I see as an adult. I took another turn down the street where I picked wild rasberries. No more - full of houses - those fuckers!! Sigh! Back to I-94 and into Chicago for my visit. Later!

Satelite of Love

2008-02-20T15:22:00.000-08:00

Poor Freckles had a hard nodule removed from one of her lower breasts a few weeks ago; therefore a partial mastectomy with it. Since she was caught licking her stitches, she came home with the cone on her head. Freaked Ditto out; she was hissed to the corner and into my bedroom. Once I trusted Freckles in not bothering her incision, she was free from being a conehead. She found her own space high up.

All is well at the queen's throne today.

Flashdance being Home!

2008-01-20T17:19:00.000-08:00

Completely enjoying the past couple weeks still at home without work travel :)

Nursing and treating 2 cats: one with 7 teeth extracted (Ditto). No wonder she behaves as though she was abused. She had 2 teeth extracted before. Now I understand why the owner gave her up - gave her the wrong diet then couldn't afford the outcome. Poor baby can only eat soft foods. So much for leaving large quantities of dried food out when I travel.

Freckles only has one ear with mites to treat. She is in heaven being home and follows me around throughout the house like an escort. Happy cat crosses her paws resting on the cold ceramic floor.

Last weekend us knit sisters visited Julie's house in Santa Paula. It was the first time I visited her home which reminds me of being in a museum with a beautiful view over the orange groves and Islands in the distance. She gave us floral teas where the bud opens up in water. Home made coffee cake and goat cheese quesadillas - YUM! Apparently I missed out on the home made apple sauce that everyone raved about after I left. Otherwise - I had a wonderful day as usual.

Tuesday evening at Sandy's warranted the presentation of Sophia's red squared afghan put together by Nancie. Beautiful! I am in the process of understanding which squares Flo and Beatriz knitted so I can send the e-image to Sophia with the names of folks on the sqares they knitted.

Yesterday, I joined Becky, Terry and Sharon on a walking hike through Satiwiwa National Park in Camarillo. After taking the rough "Hidden Pond" trail, we forged back after panting and sweating taking a break with knitting on the bridge. We encountered 4 fat and happy coyotes as part of the bonus of sweating; 2 crossed our paths. Becky took a photo of one crossing. This is the time where I regret not having my camera with me (photo from Becky).

Today (Sunday) I cleaned my house after waking up stiff. Moving around does help so I must get back in the regime of walking daily. I also want to walk in that National park again next weekend but in more moderate and shady trails :)

Poppies will Make Them Sleep!

2008-01-13T09:24:00.001-08:00

I can't believe it's been 4 years since I have been to the poppy fields in Lancaster/Palmdale area. Here are photos for those who love sunshine and wildflowers.

And when the wind blows, the petals will shine!

Travel and Conquor!

2008-01-13T08:10:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was a wonderful day! Nancie drove Lisa, Preita and myself to N.Hollywood to visit Flo in her original hometown. We picked up Flo first at her house to see her craft room. I already picked out the pattern I want for her to make me a quilt. She was wearing her Blossom pullover that I knit for her. She has a closet full of fabric pieces ready for quilting, sewing machine, working table (ones that architectures use), enlarged ironing board and a wonderful sideboard with many compartments and rollout drawers. Met Bob her husband for the first time. He showed us his Salsa outfits where he hand painted his wardrobe - beautiful and creative! I didn't have my camera with me while in there so bummer!

Off we went to Stitch Cafe http://www.stitchcafe.com All 5 of us walked in the backside and literally "took over the place". The only space to sit down together was at the table, there were couch potato knitters sitting in the cushioned furniture in front bay window section. Immediate purchases were to be had - then another round before we left. I told the shop employees that we were farmers visiting the city from Ventura county. We were the only ones conversing and I think the couch potatoes were probably listening in. We even included a couple of girls sitting at our table. One of them (forgot her name) is an art instructor for a grade school in Koreatown and was making her first garment. I can relate to that amibtion for just learning how to knit. Her project is in the forground of the photo; we didn't mean to kick her out of the photo so she took the photo. Ann was the other person who was making a scarf; visiting her parents or in-laws in the area.

Here is a photo of Flo in action; you can see the Blossom looks great on her!

After 5 hours at the shop with our flying fibers tickling our noses, it was time to eat. Went to Art's Delicattessen http://www.artsdeli.com: OMG - the best pickles and corn beef for Rueben sandwiches! Flo said they cator to filming sets.

It was all in a good day's conquor. Our next trip in the planning - Poppies in the high desert for picnic lunch end of March or very early April. It's like walking on sunshine. "Poppies - poppies will make them sleep!"

Current Ravelry Projects

2008-01-08T13:32:00.000-08:00

Mulberry Isa: Back and one sleeve is complete...now working on the front piece. This will end up being below my hips.

Savoy Fern: Wicked awesome cable pattern! This is the front section; will have to redo the back in the correct size for me.

Transition Kitties

2008-01-07T08:50:00.000-08:00

Freckles and Ditto are getting used to "home". They haven't taken over yet but you can see from photos that they are working on it (with me)

Freckles likes to perch herself on an edge and overlook activities. She is here perched to look outside. (Egg crate cushion and towel to protect my upholstery.)

Ditto is in an unusual stance; she is usually curled up on a couch or on the bed. The cat profile claims her as a couch potato. She is commonly in that position. I think she is checking my profile out staring at me here.

You know what a 'cat walk' is; this photo is my cat throne. Ditto (in cat bed) kneeding the fake sheepskin for happiness.

Surrounded by Living Creatures

2008-01-03T20:53:00.000-08:00

Today marks the first day that I have adopted 2 tortoise shell colored female adult cats from the Humane Society. They both came to me when I called for them and remembered me the next day in the place so they were the winners to come home with me. Freckles (larger one) actually stretched up on my leg to greet me when she saw me come into the pen to visit today. Ditto has a knickname "little shit" already. She demonstrates her timid and loving behavior at the place but did the following coming home: soiled herself (#2) in the cat carrier, started scratching my couch, snarled at Freckles when she came near and ate the majority of the food I poured out in 2 bowls. Ditto is supposed to be 15 months old while Freckles is 3-4 years. Maturity has certainly been noticed but bottom line they are both very sweet and enjoy attention like any cat that wants human contact. They look like bookends in this photo; waited for them to settle down after trolling my home for > 4 hours.

They definately have made themselves at home; they came from someone else's before so I guess they remember what it's like. It's good to have furry shadows following me around the house again :)

Here is another living creature that I am amazed. A Trader Joe's bought orchid that can produce such a beautiful bloom. Looks obscene but I love the crystal-like elements on the petals.

Another New Year Coming

2007-12-31T19:35:00.000-08:00

What have I accomplished this past 2007 calendar year?

Personal Life: Found out that I can overcome my fear of intense social chaos in my knitster group. I call it my group therapy with my knitting buddies. Now I can pick out the social distortions or anomalies that penetrate the flow.

Something Cool: For about 4 months, I had a mini-leased car in Detroit for my road warrior project. The car was a Dodge Charger with only 2 miles on the odomter out of the Avis rental lot. The ride was smooth with very comfortable cushion seats; bucket in the front and molded in the back. Wow is that car fast and handles turns on a dime!

Accomplishments at work: I got one out of 2 databases live for a major software upgrade for a very large client with personal hardships that I had to sacrifice for that project. Come to find out that I am "difficult to work with" in the West region from a couple of executive managers. London and Detroit report no such problem in fact am an asset. This proves to me how the West coast management have personality issues and don't know the f#$%k is going on in projects since I ask too many questions. It's a threat to their competance. I suppose some day I should work for myself. There is an option to work overseas again in Australia. However if they can't deploy me closer to my home due to personality issues, I can always stay home and knit on conference calls while getting paid. :)

Marital Status: Status quo - my attempts twice to have a meaningful relationship has failed twice. My choice in life is not to choose detrimental situations long-term when I see them. I seem to be an organizer but not one to have to "hold the bag" every time. The opportunity for meeting men is a zero.

What am I planning to do for 2008?

Personal Life: Stay away from peeps that make me feel uncomfortable. I pick up quickly on the "fat girl personality". These are the women that I have met that seem to go above and beyond to think I am their best friend. Their way of 'game playing' attempts to hit my vulnerability manipulating their paradigm to their benefit; never mind what it takes to get there even if it's imposing on me or others around me. Their social sense of reality is not the same as mine (and I have definately worked on mine to get where I am). Hanging out with this personality is going backwards for me. Bottom line - avoiding the creepiness and manipulations.

Something Cool: My next new car will be a Dodge Charger.

Accomplishments at work: continue to leave the burden of my company to deploy me in the appropriate location from my home. I am eligible for a 4 week sabbitcal this coming year. Hazzah! Time to finaly plan that photo safari in the Serengeti.

Marital Status: will attempt to find a wine tasting club where there are male species in the mix. I love hangning out with the knitsista's but everyone seems to "belong" to someone else. No expectations; just need to sharpen up on the dating scene sometime in my "bucket list".

Happy New Year everyone!

What Happens to Me when Driving Cross Counties in California

2007-12-28T12:09:00.001-08:00

The Etiquette of California Freeway Driving

2007-12-26T19:54:00.000-08:00

When I was young I had several dreams of driving a car; doesn't matter how small I was. That was a consistent sign of "taking control" or being in control. Well, there's always hazards to something that seems to be a good thing.

Driving in the MidWest:
-Learned how to rock my car when stuck in a slick icey hole wintertimes ("rock me gently, rock me slowly...") In this case, it was quick forward/reverse; back and forth - hard on the transmission.
-Learned how to keep 'control' of my vehicle when the wheels were spinning out of control.
-Fishtailing in the snow was fun!
-People know the fast lane is meant for people to drive faster than the posted speed limint.
-There were no hills or mountains to drive up or down.

Driving with California Drivers:
-I see people burn out their clutches when they are stuck in icey holes.
-Went on vacation in New Zealand where my travel companion thought that 100 KM speed on gravel was legal; funny how the car spun out of a control and nose dives into a muddy ditch. The mud in New Zealand is soft, smooth and warm as it seeps inside the rental car.
-Fishtailing in California means you have to have an annoying engine to make such outrageous maneuvers.
-Driving in the fast lane of California freeways seems to be for anyone no matter how slow you are going; forget flashing your headlights to get to them to move to the right. They are driving on a 'freeway' so it's free in any lane!
-It's amazing that when California drivers slam on their brakes when the car is driving downhill.

Sign says "Watch downhill Speed". So everyone has their brakes on all of a sudden, no wonder we have accidents. What is wrong with just taking your fucking foot off the gas pedal? 3 modes of driving a car when it's in motion: gas pedal, no gas pedal (coast), brake.

I don't mind driving 1 1/2 - 2 hours from Ventura to wherever but then I have to be patient with people who are the following:
1. Skiddish for driving beyond the speed limit (and drive in the fast lane)
2. Brake when they think you are too close them in the back and there is NOBODY else in front of them threatening their passage.
3. Brake driving in unison downhill - all lanes
4. Drivers that let their emotions take over what they are supposed to pay attention to constitutes either under a chemical influence or they are really not in reality
5. Then there the drivers who insist on talking on the cell phone while driving

Therefore I understand why people "don't want to drive" to a long distance e.g. cross counties. But we all have to spread the wealth of the challenge in this world to keep in touch with each other! I drove down twice to Long Beach and Huntington Beach (HB) for this past holiday weekend (drove back and forth; good thing the freeways were clear). I hope it was appropriate to decline another opportunity to drive down to HB for a New Year's party - I think they all need to drive up to me!

Call me "Bag Lady"

2007-12-18T13:32:00.001-08:00

I have to give credit to Becky for kicking my butt to get a new Amy Butler knitting bag from AFY. I love it!!!

It has pockets and compartments that I never knew were possible in a bag. Great for the carry-on when traveling. I don't have to bring a separate purse on board with me - there's a hidden compartment for my purse paraphenilia. Then when you open it; whalah! All of my projects pop out at me to grab without digging through for them.

I think we need to get "Luis" to stock up on her inventory ;)

Ravelry

2007-12-10T18:36:00.001-08:00

Patience to those who are taking me in as friends...I can't seem to learn this website as quickly as others.

Untagging Myself

2007-12-10T17:38:00.000-08:00

Rules for being tagged:
Here’s the deal: Once tagged, you must link to the person who tagged you. Then post the rules before your list, and list 8 random things about yourself. At the end of the post, you must tag and link to 8 other people, visit their sites, and leave a comment letting them know they’ve been tagged. So here we go. *some restrictions may apply.

So here are my 8 rantings of life since Becky tagged me:

1. I see myself living through cycles in this lifetime. "For everything, turn, turn....For every season, turn,turn" you get the idea. My hobbies & priorities have changed from precious gems, to international travel to homeownership, sewing and then there is crocheting/knitting. Workwise: uppward mobile R.N. that strives to not be pigeon-holed in one role or skill thus my career jumps x3. I didn't get a degree in Nursing for this very thought. Therefore it reflects in my easy sense of boredom from the daily routine. Working with software has definately kept me in me the loop of constant change. The downside is that working with software as a job loses the novelty of perusing through the internet to various websites. I hope others don't think I have abandoned the techy world; I am just heading for retirement all around from software (work). I even posted my dislike of keeping up with the technical items e.g. iPhone earlier in this blog. I guess if I was a professional basket-weaver with nothing else to do in a day, I would be "pinging" people all day every day!

2. When I was 10 years old, I succumbed to viral pneumonia; not bacterial. We all know viri stays with you until death. I was wondering why a cold wasn't getting better. Laying in bed flat for 5-6 weeks straight was my routine - now you see where my sense of boredom came from in #1. The only thing I could do at that age was watch day-time TV all day long. Needless to say I am sick and tired of "Bozo's Circus". "Bozo's Circus is on the air! (marching music..)". After a couple weeks, my thoughts at that age "Cram it clown!"

3. As a result for being a good girl recovering from viral pneumonia, I received pierced ears from a painful method - training earring where points were piercing into the tissue slowly. My mother thought that if I suffered that long in bed, I can suffer longer with slow torture piercing into my earlobes. I also acquired the lovely allergy to Penicillin with all of the high-doses I received with pneumonia. And last but not least, everytime I get a cold, I have respiratory symptoms regardless where the cold started. Bronchitis sometimes arises and allergies > asthma is now in my medical history from living in the high desert area. My move back to the coastal beach areas is the best condition I can live in California - poor me :)

4. During my Nursing School days, I took a job on weekends to work as a Nurse's Aid in a Catholic retirement home. Most of the residents don't talk or walk; just exist since their families didn't want to take care of them in that condition. Party animal me at that age didn't think what it was like to work under Nuns. The amitious me showed up one weekend day without being scheduled to help out. The Nun in that wing was surprised and pleased that I was there, I think. That evening, I partied to long and didn't wake up for the next day to help again - unscheduled. That Nun fired my ass because I didn't show up (but I wasn't really scheduled!). The administrator told me my fate and said, "That's the way it is". Lesson learned - since I am not Catholic I stay away from Nuns no matter where I am.

5. Have to admit that I am a bit of a control freak - for my destiny. This is probably why I haven't married. With a spouse, you are dealt a known deck of cards. But time goes by and the cards change without my awareness - Phuey! This goes the same for having children. Thank goodness there are you guys out there that want to contribute to the gene pool. Since I have no idea what genetics I carry for medical issues (if any) I will stay out of the blame for spoiling that gene pool.

6. I am ready for a roadtrip up to Cambria, CA. Last time I tried to plan one with people, there were reasons to not go. My philosophy is "I can do that" (see post from Pike Place Market experience). The goal is to stay with circles that are not negative in any sense. If I cannot do something, I don't bother to say I will and then change my mind later when I wasn't sure to begin with.

7. Is Christmas 2007 over yet?

8. I am learning to be patient with those that are less fortunate as me: intellectually/financially, etc. I see myself blessed for where I am in this world and I am doing it my way!

People I tag - VISTA won't let me attach a link and save it to your name :( so here is my list of peeps:

Becky (back at ya!)
Ann Koretz
Leslie Progue
Elizabeth Shen
Sandy Lothes
Nancie Paquin
Beatriz Ruettgers
Maryann Cotta

Holiday Time, Again!

2007-11-21T20:31:00.000-08:00

Well - lots to catch up on since I last posted....

Went to Seattle for a glorious 2-week vacation. Something that I can rarely do is take that much time off all at once. I hung out with my friend Brenda where we went to Pike Place Market. Got to see the fish stand where they throw each other the merchandise that people are purchasing. What a hoot to see flying fish and bagged crustations! One of us curious patrons received a stuffed fish thrown at him in the crowd. The guy was next to me so I almost got hit with a stuffed flying fish. That was funny to watch. On another table of ice and fish products, they had a monk fish split from the belly and laying over the ice hung by a rope at the tail. Little kids would come by and see how ugly the fish is then one of guys tugs on the rope and the kids scream!

Then I proceeded to peruse through the artists booths in the market and came across a woman who sells shawls that look like fishnet with outrageous multi-colord felted fringe material. Piece of shits on a hanger for $90! When I first went up to the table, I blurted out "I can do that!" Meaning, I can knit. The woman behind the table said, " That is rude to say something like that to the artist". I ignored her and continued to realize how much they were pieces of shit on the hangers. She then continued, "I don't appreciated you there in front of my table!". I finally said, "Sorry for passing by!" Her reaction was a nod as though she won a battle somehow. What the fuck! Brenda thought she was outright rude for her to make those 2 comments when I was merely trying to express the fact that I share the same capability of the craft. Such insecurities people have; I noticed that absolutely nobody was walking by her pieces of shit on the hangers anwyay. Now my mantra is "I can do that!"

On 11/9, I hosted a farewell dinner for Jessica Taft who has now moved up to Anchorage, AL. Had Bulgogi meatloaf and various Korean vegetables with red pepper paste. I also uncorked my favorite red table wine from Foxens. Us girls had a great time with Julie's inventive card game and of course knitting together. Good luck Jessica!

The next day I went to an all women's retreat in Ojai with Nancie, Stephanie, Mary Ann and other women that I have met for the first time; the common thread was Nancie - what a goddess! The spiritual expressions in ceremonies and the eating was the best! The hot and cold tubs were great; love the cold contrast from sitting in the hot mineral water. It was like I was sitting in 'women stew' ;)

Meanwhile, I have finished the poka-dot sweater but have yet to weave in the loose ends. I realize it's too big for me after all therefore it still sits on a pretty hanger. I also accidently corrected 3 of the 6 button holes in the front ribbing; forgot those holes were intentional. Got the long sliver buttons hoping 3 will keep is close when worn.

I also made another Elzbeth Lavold short-sleeved lace pullover in 3-4 weeks with the easiest yarn to work with - Marisol. I guess I am turning into a sweater machine! "I can do that!!"

Tomorrow for Thanksgiving, I will have an out-of-town visitor to stay with me for the Holiday and throughout the weekend while visiting other friends. His name is Bill and an ex-beau and I am about to put him through a busy weeken. Will have to keep you all posted on what this adventure visit will bring.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Celebration Times Come On!

2007-09-17T17:18:00.000-07:00

Cool and the Gang made that song a hit in the 1980's. So here is what I am celebrating:

1. My project is FINALLY going live with one of the databases end of this month and it's up to the client to get their act together this time; not my company - hah! The second database should be similar and going up in January. This means I will be working on getting a project closer to home so I won't be a surburban Detroit inmate soon.

2. Just received my annual review and I am getting a 4% increase in salary. This doesn't mean I am going out to buy more cashmere but now I can feel comfortable that I made that assault on my budget from BB's Knits. I am thinking of a Vegas knitting weekend at a Marriott resort so I can use my hotel points......

3. I am still surviving without an iPhone!! Hell, I am still surviving without my own laptop. My work PC is upgraded to Microsoft Vista and a new Dell machine. Working with Vista is a different story where i don't want to spoil the celebratory message

4. I am working from home this week so I can work on 4 different projects simultaneously. Poka-dot project: working on last sleeve piece; Multi-blue pullover: completed back piece, working on front (3-yarn project); Einstein's jacket: resurrecting yarn that was meant for something else and thrown to the side.....working on bottom piece; Baby Einstein: new project just started this past weekend with Baby Bamboo yarn - love it!

Just working from home puts me in a better disposition. What a concept! Cheers to the American housewives out there.

In Person Star Entourage

2007-09-14T21:40:00.000-07:00

One more experience of star gazing....

While going through the security check at the Detroit airport, I realized that Stevie Wonder was in front of me being guided through as he walked through the scanner. Looked like a skinny body guard was behind him. I was thrilled! After the security check he was sitting in a chair while Northwestern attendants were standing around him. I walked on, hearing girls scream "Stevie" in the terminal; then watched him and the entourage circle around him as he joined me on the tram to the gate. Everyone in the tram car is saying, "That's Stevie Wonder!" as though he wasn't able to hear anyone whispering this. I proceeded to follow him down the escalators from the tram ride; I couldn't find the nerve to say anything since the entourage was around him along with a female companion - like I was going to hit on him, right.

It was quite a treat to be in the presence of such a master artist! I think that if I was in the same space as Tom Hanks I would definately pass out! What is the likelyhood of that happenening?

Star Gazing!

2007-08-17T21:53:00.000-07:00

Hey I had a thrill at the airport...gotta find them whenever and wherever I can.

When I flew back into LAX from my inmate home visit from Detroit, I didn't realize that I was flying with a celebrity. Natalie Cole and her band were getting off the plane and I didn't recognize her with her dark incognito glasses. But when we were all getting our luggage, she was walking in front of me and around me pacing and talking on her phone waiting for the bags to come on the belt. Woohooo! Circled by a celebrity! No matter how many years I live in CA, I am always star struck by the celebs.

One flight years ago, I was walking in front of Alan Rickman from a Salt Lake flight back. Since he is British, all I could think of then was "don't fart, don't fart!"

I shook hands with Jonathon Frakes in a bar in West Hollywood; number one on Star Trek New Generation.

Saw Bruce Springstein walk in around midnight in a Beverly Hills restaurant that I was having a capuccino in.

When I was working in the intensive care units, I remember taking care of Ella Fitzgerald on the night shift. Early morning when I was drawing her a bath, she sang me the blues in a private concert. What a thrill!

Scatman Crothers sang me a tune that he wrote for the director of "The Shining" while recovering from major lung surgery. I gave him my leftover bag of peanuts from a ballgame when he transferred to a regular room; he gave me a box of See's chocolates :)

I found out Jackson Browne's real name is Clyde Brown when I took care of him.

There were other celebs that I took care of but I think I will hold on to that patient confidentiality.

"So if you're tired of the same old story....

2007-08-06T16:42:00.000-07:00

...turn some pages"

Went to the Ventura County fair and checked out REO Speedwagon in concert Saturday night. I saw them 25 years ago and they still sound great! Gray hair but they are still rocking. Had to buy their new CD since Kevin Cronin plugged it twice during the show. All the youngsters in the crowd took off probably because they don't get that generation of music.

After the concert, I almost pissed in my pants on the Magnum ride. OMG! If you want an excitement and thrilling ride - get your 6 ride tickets ready!

With all due respect, it's nice to go the fair with less crowds, at night and not have to work as a demonstrator this year. :)

Cheers to the knit sisters who are demonstrating for AFY - obviously couldn't sign up to volunteer this year.

Life Coming at Me Fast: Poka-dot Express

2007-07-28T15:03:00.000-07:00

For those who are interested in updates in blogs, here is this one....

1. I think I have a "boyfriend", his name is Tim - we went to a Dodger game as one of our first dates.
The picture here is the last time I saw those pair of glasses...I have been blind for 3 weeks now until I get my new pairs with new prescriptions. Two so in case I lose one I have another. It's hell to get old!

While at the game I thought I take a shot of a boy who decided on the best looking headgear.

Since I am a prisoner of the friendly skys, I ended up talking to a family traveling to CA for the first time on vacation. I was their 'tour guide' telling them what cool places to check out; free or not. I had to take another shot of the boy's headgear for travel

2. Went to watch a Kung Fu fighting tournament last weekend to watch Tim's son Josh compete. ("Everybody was Kung Fu fighting, it was just as fast as lightening") All I saw was a bunch of people dressed in pads and a samauri outfit hitting each other with rattan sticks. Afterwards, the grand master of Josh's school guided us to Chinatown in L.A. - best Chinese food! He told us about his Kung Fu fighting school, the business and the people drama; just like a soap opera. After hearing about their people drama, I called it "All My Sticks".

3. I finally finished the backside of my poka-dot sweater that April and I started. I am losing track on the time of how long it's taking; this is a huge chore. Since I am an inname to Detroit suburbia, this is my daily task while I emotionally melt with the project (an activity that supports the income of my consumerism e.g. cashmere) that is supposed to convert in 6 weeks. Ode to the therapy of knitting; without it I would definately loose it.

4. Today (July 28, 2007) I watched my cousin's daughter Alexa Scimeca competed in a figure skating competition here in Detroit suburbia. She looked beautiful on the ice. This wasn't her best day and she seems to have a reputation everywhere even on the net. Kinda cool to have a famous relative! Just like any athlete, she has to skate every day with thousands of dollars invested in her training and competition mode. I hope she does well in regionals; it's one more step toward the Olympics. At least I won't have a problem knowing how to spell her last name.

iPhone Frenzy - is it for You?

2007-07-01T05:37:00.001-07:00

Apple came out with the newest techy gadget June 29 iPhone which costs >$600+. I used to love new gadgets that would come out in the technology world since that is my industry of work. However my priorities from lessons learned (and practicality) have taken me away from such a "gotta have it" paradigm. Here is My Top 10 List of not getting iPhone:

10. Heard the funtionality is not all there as designed
9. Another opporutity for foreign language speaking people to call me thinking that I am there relative with that phone number
8. Another opportunity for organizations to call me thinking I am the person that had the number previously
7. My eyesight is already out the window; have to keep my glasses on to read the screen and make sure I am touching the right iconic windows
6. Hanydman bill of service vs. iPhone billing for continued service; choose the latter since the results last longer
5. One more valuable piece of hardware to loose in my cave-live purse to search for
4. Cashmere yarn lasts longer than this product; and it doesn't require upgrade or replacement for better quality or "newer features"
3. Another medium of opportunity for hackers to steal my identity
2. Even though the craze is to get the newest technology available in the market and be part of that history, I never was one to follow a "trend"
1. Very limited people that want to talk to me on the regular phone now / I can access the net when I am working anytime (when I find the time)

In terms of our capital world, "What's in your wallet?"

Caught in a Photo Gallery Tease

2007-06-30T06:40:00.000-07:00

One of the photographers grabbed me to take a photo for Detriout Tigers Photo Gallery as I was walking into Comerica Park, where the Detroit Tigers play.
I got off of work since I am here in MotorCity this weekend, went straight to the hotel, changed and drove to the park in time to see the Minnesota Twins warm-up time. The photographer had a more attractive photo of me with a close up of my face with the scoreboard in the background. As you can see, I think they are saving it - those bastards! I guess it was because I asked the guy to take a photo of me in the same pose with my camera. Good service is hard to come by these days!

Oops, I did it again!

2007-06-30T06:16:00.000-07:00

BB Knits

Last weekend I had another scooping visit that has definately put me on a strict budget. I have my supportive friends who were my accomplices so I enjoyed the group euphoria! We had to bring out our stash on my front lawn to literally roll into our merchandise.

Celebrating with Nancie, Lisa and Terry post mortum purchasing.

Nancie salivating over her stash...

Going for a taste test with Lisa's.

Terry enjoying the wine and fibers.

Pur cashmere and mohair blends - just like looking at precious jewelry!

Hostage Experience in Motorcity

2007-06-20T17:13:00.000-07:00

My client has expressed that things have slowed down for not being here for 3 weeks in a row, so I will call this my "hostage project" from now on. Love how they bitch about it but they can't seem to give me specifics on why they think this project is behind because I have vacations like other people.

This past weekend in hostage quarters, I did manage to visit a pottery and glass craft fair. Boothes and boothes of crafty glass and pottery creations. It all started looking the same; unfortunately I am sure a non-knitter would be feeling the same for shopping in a yarn store. The highlight at the fair was a twisty ice cream cone in the midst of the hot summer day and the live band playing 70's dance and booggie music. I didn't manage to get the name of the band but they were a great copy band that played disco, Michael Jackson, EW&F, Gloria Gaynor, etc. Check out the pics - I hung out with them for the rest of my stay at this fair.

Polyester outfits with large printed shirts and afro wigs!

....with platform shoes....

He appeared when "Super Freak" started...he was dancing and twisting his limbs around with anyone else who was dancing. The audience ended up laughing and staring...brought me back home again :)

Can't forget my progress and commitment to poka dots!

International Knit in Public can be "Dangerous"

2007-06-09T21:28:00.000-07:00

I truly enjoyed today with Lisa, Nancie, Terry and Stepanie in SB for the Int'l Knit in Public day. We met some of the SB knitters that also meet on Thursday evenings together. After working on only two rows of my poka-dot sweater, I became chilled while sitting there; perhaps due to the anticipation of going to B.B.'s Knits for the going out of business sale - everything 50% off!

Well, off we go at 3 PM for the hunt. Between the five of us, we spent $2943.41 exactly from our multiple purchases. Some of use bought all in one visit to the register; others took multiple visits to the register. I was the winner for spending $1128.31. Pictures tell the story.

Here I am overseeing the two large shopping bags of inventory to purchase.

Here is a box of "gems" to the tune of $300 - 100% cashmere! ChaChing goes the register.

B.B. asks me if I really wanted to purchase the box of cashmere...I didn't think twice - Nancie didn't think I was going to do it; Terry knew I was commited!

Me hunter and gatherer; all in a good day's euphoria. This is a moment where I am very happy to not have to answer to a spouse on what I spend my money on. What will I make with all of this? Only time will tell ;) Thank you ladies for a wonderful day!

Now for my Next Magic Trick...

2007-06-02T22:56:00.001-07:00

Here is my next challenge of life - my first button-down summer sweater with the fairisle (intarsia really) technique. April and I have bought the same book, same yarn and same pattern; hers being different colors. I have adjusted the size to work with different yarn than the pattern calls for and away I go. I have a short torso therefore shortened the bottom ribbing. It took me a bit of time to remember how to change off the colors but I finally have the rhythm!

Yeah - I look like her, right!

So pumping along while staying in Pismo Beach. All of a sudden I realized that I didn't look at the whole pattern for the correct inches for my wide body. Guess what? Had a ripping event; here is how far I got before I realized I had to start all over again.

Memorial BBQ Time

2007-05-28T11:50:00.000-07:00

What can you say in mixed company? Had my "annual" BBQ for Memorial weekend. Guests included my local knittster sisters and the AKA (Adult Korean Adoptees) group. Then there were the ghost busters...

It was worth my exhaustion and limited time for getting ready...this was the opportunity to initate my new shed "storage annex" built by my handyman Tracy Bridger.

"Group Therapy"

Swinging, knitting and eating.

Heather and Chad

AKA Group

Ann and Kenny

....and Leslie

Good times to welcome in Summer!

Mother's Day Visit

2007-05-28T11:35:00.000-07:00

On Mother's day I managed to drive from Detriot metro (stayed the weekend :P) to Chicago to meet my cousin Tom and his family. This is the first time I am meeting these people since it has been 30 years since I hung out with Tom. It was as though 30 years wasn't between us. We reflected on the teenage stuff we did e.g. getting drunk at my oldest brother's wedding at 14 years old. Good times when there are open bottles of wine on all the tables. I had my appendix out 3 weeks before that and I was part of the wedding party. If I couldn't dance, I wanted to have a good time - that was the first time I got drunk. We also reminisced about when I visited their family parties and all the family dynamics that went with the scenes. I found out that my second cousin Alexa who is 15 is truly a terrific figure skater and going into sectional/regional championships. Aliva teaches ballet at the same rink that Alexa skates at daily and their oldest brother Derek is a star employee/supervisor at UPS. Tina, Toms' wife is a blast to talk with - very open and nuts just like me ;) Haveing two big meals out with them gave me a stomache ache but it was worth the trouble!

Tina, Tom, Alivia, Alexa, (big blob!) and Derek

Car scene - Tina, Alexa and Alivia

Boys of summer - Tom and Derek

Flashback of Events

2007-05-28T11:05:00.000-07:00

Ok...I have to catch you guys up on places and faces I have seen in the last couple months.

Since I am deployed in the Detroit metro area, I visited the Henry Ford museum on April 14, 2007 . where they have the presidential Lincoln Continental that Kennedy was shot in. The hard top is on it here in the display.

Then I peruse through the museum and come across the chair that Lincoln was assinated in while in the Ford museum - 142 years ago. Note the blood stains in the upholstery of the chair. Such irony, Lincoln dead in the Ford Theatre; Kennedy dies in a Lincoln and this is both in a Ford musuem.

Anyone can Comment in this Blog!

2007-05-18T18:04:00.000-07:00

Ok...so I work in computers but I am not always bright when it comes to default settings. Comment away everyone!

Definately Affected by the Moon

2007-05-09T17:42:00.000-07:00

It's official! I am now very centered and happy with myself this week since I feel like I have accomplished something positive at my current project. Friday I blew a gasket when I realized that coming home to only work long and intense hours didn't give me the feeling that I was "home". It's simply a turnstyle building where I exchange clothes, pay bills and get my handyman set up for additional work (paying him more $$). However every month I seem to have a small bout of insomnia - blame it on the moon.

Meanwhile I long for having another pet to come home to. Here's something interesting! Before I left Sunday morning to the Oxnard airport I woke up with pieces of toilet paper trailed in my bedroom doorway. One piece seemd to be smooched together and a couple of small pieces balled up like in a trail of bread crumbs. Now I know that I am not that sloppy to trail TP around my house! I think my cat Opal who died in my house is still there. This was something she would do to get my attention when she was a kitten. A month ago one of my purses fell off a shelf in a room that I was not in at all. I heard something fall and saw that my purse was upside down on the floor. A camera strap on a shelf above was still swinging from the movement since it had to pass through it falling. That wasn't me either! This was another kinetic action that Opal used to do when she was a kitten to get my attention. If anyone can explain this, I am open for anything.

My routine is to shut this computer down at a certain evening hour no matter how many email message are outstanding in my inbox. Too bad world! I do have a life and I need to break no matter if I live in this hotel or not. At least someone cleans after me :)

Memoirs of a Road Warrior!

Creative Therapy

2007-05-09T17:33:00.000-07:00

For those you are still reading my blog here...I am posting photos of a baby blanket that I knitted for my friend Camille. This is what I sent express mail to her cousin who just recently had a baby.

Knitting seems to help me stay focused and avoids me from thinking of what next to eat. :)

Here is my daily inspiration trying it out

Dream of Running

2007-05-04T22:48:00.000-07:00

The other night I had one of those dreams where I was with people I know in real life. This usually means that something is going on with them yet it's funny how I recognize two people in my dream this time and they are both Asian adoptees like myself! It's finally coming to me that I am facing my hidden issues that I kept burrying all these years I suppose.

I dreamed I was walking into some Casino house where several poker tables were in games with lots of men. I walked in with Joe Thompson and Jan Lyon (haven't been in touch with these guys for a while either) when my cell phone rang and somebody on the other line was chatting about nonsense then all of a sudden screamed "RUN! NOW!" It startled me to where I dropped the phone, the voice still chatting loud enough as I ran away. I turned around and noticed Jan was looking at me in a weird way as though I was crazy as I am running away. As I ran out of this building, I almost ran into men with guns as they were coming into the building to raid the place. I realized they were the authority busting the place but I was getting out in time. My adoptee 'friends' were still in the building but I didin't seem to be interested or concerned of what the fate is for them since they didn't follow me out. I didn't say anything to them, just ran. The voice on the phone gave me to cue that there was no time to explain, just run. Even after running out, I kept running in the street as though I was trying to really be in the clear of something.

My dream book states that dreaming of running by yourself indicates that I will outstrip my friends in the race for wealth and occupy a higher place in social life. Telephone in dreams means jealousy and rivalry but will overcome all evil influences. Sounds like I was being selfish in my dream by not caring what happens to others around me. Funny how dreams and reality can somehow be symbolic. I realize that I am going through a time where I need to take care of myself and no others. Sorry folks - I miss you all in this world but my sense of humor is on hold temporarily. Perhaps working long hours doesn't help matters.